Found Out My Mom's Cheating on My Step-Father

[Sleyker]

Hey guys, I'm in a little bit of a tight spot here.

I just found out my mom's cheating on my step-father. I'm really disappointed and don't know what to do.

How am I supposed to act?

Should I talk to her? 

Should I act as if nothing happened?

Sorry I have to ask for help, it's something I could figure out by myself but I'd love to read your points of view. Thanks!

[Natasha]

@Sleyker Yes, I would talk to her. But only after making sure her new beau is not a psycho and won't come for you if found out. 

Marital affairs are usually fleeting, yet can cause damage to the bond with a spouse. 

Also, do you know if your mom and step-dad didn't agree to an open relationship, that you may not be aware of?

[Sleyker]

33 minutes ago, Natasha said:

@Sleyker Yes, I would talk to her. But only after making sure her new beau is not a psycho and won't come for you if found out. 

Marital affairs are usually fleeting, yet can cause damage to the bond with a spouse. 

Also, do you know if your mom and step-dad didn't agree to an open relationship, that you may not be aware of?

I don't think they agreed to it, but it's possible, I hadn't thought of that.

My biggest fear in the situation is the shame that I would make her feel and how our relationship would change.

Just found out yesterday so my feelings are strong now, maybe I'll take some time to think about it.

Thanks again Natasha, you're all over the place in this forum adding value!

[Natasha]

10 minutes ago, Sleyker said:

I'll take some time to think about it.

Good decision.

11 minutes ago, Sleyker said:

Thanks again Natasha, you're all over the place in this forum adding value!

Thank you