If You Want True Love, Stop Doing This One Thing

[Natasha]

Truth.

Jack Butler gives you a full scoop on the mater.

 

[Shin]

[FredFred]

Thank you Natasha  I really appreciated the video!

[Natasha]

@FredFred You're very welcome  Knowledge is power.

[universe]

If you want true love stop clickbait?

Its the only thing I got from it. sorry

[pluto]

True Love is always wanting what's best for someone, even if it doesn't include you. The sooner you realize this, the easier it becomes to let go, integrate the lesson, move on and bloom!

[Natasha]

@pluto Yes, that's what basically the guy says in the video. 

A lot of people fall in love while on the high from the newness of the romance and think that's true love. Only to realize a few months into investing emotionally/physically/financially that the idealized person wasn't really what they thought they were. Back down to reality again.

As a result, many hearts get broken because of this unconscious dynamic and brings them not a inch closer to the true love they are looking for.

To see the real person behind a pretty/handsome face takes time.

[pluto]

@Natasha Indeed, it was a good one

[JustinS]

[Shin]

3 hours ago, Natasha said:

@pluto Yes, that's what basically the guy says in the video. 

A lot of people fall in love while on the high from the newness of the romance and think that's true love. Only to realize a few months into investing emotionally/physically/financially that the idealized person wasn't really what they thought they were. Back down to reality again.

As a result, many hearts get broken because of this unconscious dynamic and brings them not a inch closer to the true love they are looking for.

To see the real person behind a pretty/handsome face takes time.

Maybe being totally honest from the start can make that way easier

[Natasha]

2 hours ago, Shin said:

Maybe being totally honest from the start can make that way easier

That would be ideal, ofc.

But most of the people are not advanced/evolved enough not to only be willing to reveal their volnurable self to a new potential partner, but also to be able to accept the unlovable parts of the other person. It's only after you fall hook and sinker for the idealized version of them (during the infatuation process, which is still an important part of a relationship), that we are able to effectively compromise for and unconditionally accept the unveiled person in front of us.

Love becomes a choice once the honeymoon phase ends and real relationship work begins.

You and M are going to make it, I have good feeling about it 

[Shin]

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-21277/the-4-qualities-of-a-conscious-relationship.html

[Natasha]

5 hours ago, Shin said:

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-21277/the-4-qualities-of-a-conscious-relationship.html

That's a great article 'The 4 Qualities of A Conscious Relationship'. It deserves its own thread. 

Thanks for sharing 

[Shin]

 

https://youtu.be/JTlJInZvXtM

 

 

Never let him go ?

[Shin]

 

[Ingit]

I am literally afraid to actually love someone deeply for the second time... Cuz I feel hurt and obsessed with the person I love.... I am always in anxiety... i feel disturbed when talking to someone

[Shin]

26 minutes ago, Ingit said:

I am literally afraid to actually love someone deeply for the second time... Cuz I feel hurt and obsessed with the person I love.... I am always in anxiety... i feel disturbed when talking to someone

It's not love it's attachment.

Google the difference ?

[Shin]

 

[Ingit]

@Shin thank u Great video

[Shin]

4 minutes ago, Ingit said:

@Shin thank u Great video

It is not to be used to manipulate women though