how do i go about random hookups?

[Psyche_92]

It's been such a long time since i had sex, that i can't even remember when it was, and it starting to irritate me a little. If i have to put a number on it, it probably was at least 4 years ago.

I don't wanna go to a prostitute, but i also don't feel like putting an insane amount of effort into getting to know a girl, dating her etc.  It also feels like the leap is way too big right now to just go out there and actually hunt after one, i'm just not feeling it.

Now i know that it will not fulfill me long term, but i think i just need to get over this so i can move on and focus on myself again.

How do i go about this?

[Natasha]

1 minute ago, Psyche_92 said:

How do i go about this?

With a condom and with letting a girl know upfront you're not looking for a relationship.

[Psyche_92]

6 minutes ago, Natasha said:

With a condom and with letting a girl know upfront you're not looking for a relationship.

Hahaha yeah obviously xd. I'm more talking like where do i find such girls? I can't just walkup to a girl and ask her to have sex right...

[Gili Trawangan]

Try dating apps. Don't be too picky about their looks though

[Natasha]

4 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

Hahaha yeah obviously xd. I'm more talking like where do i find such girls? I can't just walkup to a girl and ask her to have sex right...

Ask @Shin how he does it. He's an expert

2 minutes ago, Gili Trawangan said:

Try dating apps. Don't be too picky about their looks though

And this. Females on dating sites are automatically pre-qualified.

[Psyche_92]

@Shin Share your knowledge

[Psyche_92]

@Gili Trawangan @Natasha Allright i'll try .

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

@Shin Share your knowledge

She's joking.

I've literally been with 3 women in 3 years

[Psyche_92]

6 minutes ago, Shin said:

She's joking.

I've literally been with 3 women in 3 years

Ah shit. Well, i guess 3 is better than 0 in 4 years.

[RendHeaven]

5 hours ago, Shin said:

She's joking.

I've literally been with 3 women in 3 years

Healthy community jests!

So lovely 

[bejapuskas]

@Psyche_92  I solved this problem by realizing, that presence is a more valuable thing to go for and it even makes me more stable, conscious, compassionate and loving, therefore better prepared for a relationship. I think Maslow and Grof talked about this? I am not really sure, I don't want to spread desinformation and also I have been with 1 woman in my life and I am also 16  

[Psyche_92]

8 hours ago, Shiva said:

There's an app called Tinder...

I'm already over the idea of random hookups. Thank for the tip though lol.

[Shin]

33 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

I'm already over the idea of random hookups. Thank for the tip though lol.

You don't want random hookup, nor dating, nor prostitute ?

Then just masturbate because that's the only thing left ?

[Psyche_92]

1 hour ago, Shin said:

You don't want random hookup, nor dating, nor prostitute ?

Then just masturbate because that's the only thing left ?

No i'm still on NoFap. Fuck fapping and shit. I'm also not gonna waste my seed having sex with some random girl. I'm just gonna continue my semen retention and stop being a little bitch lol. 5 secs of pleasure is not worth it.

Edited June 21, 2019 by Psyche_92