Be Alone Or To Hang Out With "toxic People"?

[Nathalie]

38 minutes ago, bracov said:

- when I am alone for long hours, I am starting to feel bad, similar feeling like driving for long hours without breaks... if you understand what I mean. It's a bad feeling that makes you feel like a crazy

First: you're very welcome

and yes, I know this feeling.. But isn't it worth to go through this emotion anstead avoiding it because of some kind of hidden anxieties? Maybe, by staying fully present with you and your surrounding, you'll discover something really profound in you.

Ok, you may say those are only words.. but I mean it seriously..

You may get your the best insights going through bad feelings. At least it's the experience I often make. What makes you feel like a crazy ? Your thoughts? If you stop by and watch them and return to the present moment, they lose their power and you become more personal developed, is it worth it?

And if you need a rest from observing, you have enough ideas now, right  ?

 

[Falk]

Hey guys i have a question: 

Should i spend some time with the most amazing person on this planet (even thou the person might not know it yet) or with some toxic people?

Also in a sense there are no toxic people just people you interpret as toxic, maybe because you feel like their behaviour might get adapted by you, which is only possible if you fear that your own will isn´t strong enough to keep your own positiv habits independently of others...

in this sense: "those people are toxic" translates to "i can´t trust myself fully yet" ..which is fine if you can´t, just stay away for a while, deepen your understanding and then come back 

[Nameless]

bracov,

Some may preach that you are not your body, but I believe my body is as real as a pile of dirty dishes. 

If you are joining the military, prepare the body. Tidy up your surroundings. 

You are not crazy. Humanity has left an impression on your mind that you need to occupy time with conditioned activities. In the US television commercials and magazine advertisements glorify perfect looking people dressed in popular clothing hanging out with similar looking people.

The advertisements are staged, the happy people are models posing for money, the ad is a sales gimmick to lure buyers - Im off topic, but the mass distraction of minds is just a financial game.

While you are bored with nothing to do...your heart pumps blood and your body breathes air in and out, the food you ate earlier magically passes thru you...your "awareness" doesn't have any say or active role in the functioning of the human body. 

You have the power to choose/reject crappy food for your body and choose or reject crappy mental input for your mind. 

You are Nature!

Friends are here to nudge you onto the middle path.

 

 

 

 

Edited April 30, 2016 by Nameless

[Rodrigo]

@bracov If you are supposed to be alone you will be alone. Dont think about it, let it happen either way.

[ACE]

I have a similar problem, like you, and I decided to go on the more difficult path, rather to be alone and leave everything behind.
You see for me there was a girl who was trully important, I always tried my best, to make a friendship with her, but she always tried to be emotionless and she kept large distance from me. I don't feel love for her, not romantic love or anything, but I really enjoyed working with her, and I liked her personality. I tried my best to make friendship, never had this problem with the other people around, but only with her, yet in the end I saw that there will be no chance of that, so I had to give it up. It hurts, because she was important for me, and at first time, she was always kind and nice with me, but after I told her that I like her, she closed herself up, and created this imaginary layer of invisible wall around herself, so that there is no chance of getting her as a good friend. I think maybe she misunderstood my intentions and thought that I feel love for her. It's better now this way, because if we would have become friends, leaving now would be more painful for me.

Edited May 1, 2016 by ACE