Has anyone successfully transformed sexual energy?

[vibrate]

I find very few sources on that topic. What I'm looking for is a way to transform actual, aroused sexual energy.

I tried this morning during meditation, with the particular situation that I had satisfied my partner and got aroused in the process myself but was not touched myself (why that is is a whole other issue, looking for energetic solutions here). First with locating the energy in my body, then to pull it up the spine. This worked for some time. Then I tried to load up my aura with it. Then I just want to let it expand. In the beginning I felt like being on the right path but then I drifted off with my thoughts (toward anger, resentment, frustration and shame which is precisely what I want to avoid). I settled for affirmations instead, inviting sexuality into my life.

I really want to explore and pracice this more. Any clues?

 

[rex]

yeah, try with Mantak Chia - Taoist Secrets of love Cultivating male sexual energy

 

 

[Hellspeed]

7 hours ago, vibrate said:

I find very few sources on that topic. What I'm looking for is a way to transform actual, aroused sexual energy.

I tried this morning during meditation, with the particular situation that I had satisfied my partner and got aroused in the process myself but was not touched myself (why that is is a whole other issue, looking for energetic solutions here). First with locating the energy in my body, then to pull it up the spine. This worked for some time. Then I tried to load up my aura with it. Then I just want to let it expand. In the beginning I felt like being on the right path but then I drifted off with my thoughts (toward anger, resentment, frustration and shame which is precisely what I want to avoid). I settled for affirmations instead, inviting sexuality into my life.

I really want to explore and pracice this more. Any clues?

 

Put the arousal into Muladhara, colon\legs\base of the spine. Pull second chakra belly in Hara at exhale. Use spleen to pull hara in and sexual energy left and down.

[Forestluv]

@vibrate For me, actual physical sexual contact would be too much. One exercise I did with a partner was to sit in a meditation posture facing each other. Get grounded. Then we might put our hands on each other’s legs, perhaps inner thighs. A bit of sexual energy may arise. If it starts to overflow and the mind-body gets into “screw this exercise, let’s get it on” mode, then I pull back. Just a bit of sexual energy and observe it. That energy can overlap and merge with energies of strength, creativity, desire, humor, attention and so on. Then the mind-body may become groundless and not sure how to categorize sexual energy. Ime, just a little sexual energy is best. The mind-body is conditioned to amplify and pursue sexual energy. Don’t let it “go over the edge”. I found starting with a small amount we each could stay grounded and work with was best. . . A more advanced exercise is an interactive yoga with a partner and mixing in a bit of sexual energy with other energies. Like different paint colors. It’s super cool, yet it’s hard to find a partner into this.

[Hellspeed]

10 minutes ago, Shiva said:

How do you put the arousal into muladhara?

How do you pull the second chakra belly in hara?

How do you use your spleen to pull hara?

And what the hell does this even mean?

Not for you apparently stick with self-inquiry @#;P

[Soul-lover 2020]

8 hours ago, vibrate said:

I find very few sources on that topic. What I'm looking for is a way to transform actual, aroused sexual energy.

I tried this morning during meditation, with the particular situation that I had satisfied my partner and got aroused in the process myself but was not touched myself (why that is is a whole other issue, looking for energetic solutions here). First with locating the energy in my body, then to pull it up the spine. This worked for some time. Then I tried to load up my aura with it. Then I just want to let it expand. In the beginning I felt like being on the right path but then I drifted off with my thoughts (toward anger, resentment, frustration and shame which is precisely what I want to avoid). I settled for affirmations instead, inviting sexuality into my life.

I really want to explore and pracice this more. Any clues?

 

Sexual energy is meant to be focused on either sex with someone else, or self-love.  I've learned to tame my inner beast.  

Edited May 28, 2019 by Soul-lover 2020

[ColdFacts]

It's not that hard but the efficiency depends on the person. First become aware of the sexual energy which should not be hard but soon after you will need lots more of that, second part is to imagine that energy acting through your body and doing tasks for you, for example boring things that you need to do or challenging things that have mental resistance. When you do that the resistance of the task will go against your sexual energy and they will cancel out each other out but the stronger one will prevail. Let's assume you are studying and hate it, now when you study you assume your sexual energy wants to study for you and you actually hate it and so you use the existence of your sexual energy as the reason why you are studying and so as long as you have that you will study when it runs out then you're on your own, basically like motivation that good feeling you use as a excuse without knowing. So the key is to assume that your sexual energy is asking or wanting to do the task for you, or you can imagine that energy asking to do so, to your mind it will be the same.

[Soul-lover 2020]

Let's not complicate matters, eh? 

[ColdFacts]

1 minute ago, Soul-lover 2020 said:

Let's not complicate matters, eh? 

It's really easy just follow my comment above. You lose your unwanted lust and in the process get things done, so you become more productive and pure as a person.

[Flatworld Crusades]

On 28 May 2019 at 4:46 PM, vibrate said:

I find very few sources on that topic. What I'm looking for is a way to transform actual, aroused sexual energy.

I tried this morning during meditation, with the particular situation that I had satisfied my partner and got aroused in the process myself but was not touched myself (why that is is a whole other issue, looking for energetic solutions here). First with locating the energy in my body, then to pull it up the spine. This worked for some time. Then I tried to load up my aura with it. Then I just want to let it expand. In the beginning I felt like being on the right path but then I drifted off with my thoughts (toward anger, resentment, frustration and shame which is precisely what I want to avoid). I settled for affirmations instead, inviting sexuality into my life.

I really want to explore and pracice this more. Any clues?

 

How did you load your aura up with sexual energy? What's your energetic reason for putting it through your aura? Is there any chance when your loaded your aura that you compromised your defences against anger etc?

Edited May 30, 2019 by Flatworld Crusades