Why All The Egos Strive/Want to Be The Best?

[now is forever]

11 minutes ago, Charlotte said:

To strengthen the form of identity. In ANY direction. 

☀️?

while it’s not identity that should be radiant - identity is to turn inward see outward how everyone is only trying to survive. i always hated games in school sports where someone had to loose or win - there are other forms of games. the problem is that rules define the game, and society plays after certain kinds of rules. 

Edited May 20, 2019 by now is forever

[Charlotte]

Of course yes. It's all survival games. Literally ? ♥️

[now is forever]

@Charlotte  yes.

you know i usually was in the middle field - but i hated it that someone had to loose, and i hated the winner dynamics (le coq sportif) . and especially i hated it when two people had to choose alternating who was going to be on the team and who not. because then there where 4 or 6 on the loosing end. and these dynamics can ruin a whole day for a child - it sometimes ruined mine, too, because i hated it so much - the game wasn’t fun anymore. in a sense these dynamics produce hierarchy, as i saw friendships splitting up over matters like that.

Edited May 20, 2019 by now is forever