Strip Clubs/ Dating

[Shakazulu]

Does anyone know how or when strip clubs came into existence? Why are men so driven for vagina that they'll pay to have a peak or even a touch? I understand the masculine and feminine must merge but it feels unempowering to men... strip clubs are more in favour of woman. 

 

On another note I realized relationships/dating improve by direct experience: going on dates, having sex, having fun but for some reason I feel this entitlement that I'm too good for mere expereinces, it's almost like I want more out of the date. Can anyone relate?

[tsuki]

8 hours ago, Shakazulu said:

Why are men so driven for vagina that they'll pay to have a peak or even a touch? I understand the masculine and feminine must merge but it feels unempowering to men... strip clubs are more in favour of woman. 

From a gross point of view - yes, it is disempowering for men to yearn for a woman that much.
On a more subtle level though, it is precisely the point. The masculine fantasy is to have so much power that you can give it off freely.

Strip clubs are a monstrosity not because they are disempowering for anybody. It is because it is a place where men that dedicate their lives for amassing power meet with women that dedicate their lives to be perfectly deceitful. Yes, men are in power because they have money and status, and yes - they are disempowered because of their animal instincts. It is, however symmetrical for women. They have the power over the animal instinct, but they are powerless because of lack of money and opportunities.

Frankly, I find strip clubs beautiful in a grotesque way.

Edited May 7, 2019 by tsuki

[Shakazulu]

@tsuki interesting ? Thanks brother