Struggling with positive projection

[Beeman]

I project positive things to everything and it is creating defects. What shall I do? 

I work on my self and my Sprituality for 5 years, because of that I became empathic, loving, supportive, playful etc, But this quality is working against me. My mental projection is not a real world reality. 

I am trying to take some actions. For example not giving attention for people etc what do you suggest? 

[DrewNows]

Well you’ve started off good in being aware of your projections. Pointless to “try” to stop these projections but awareness can bring an end to them. You can see with reflection how these projections arise from a false sense of self. Complete awareness of this thought self is necessary 

Also maybe try playing around with negative projections, non-seriously.