Leo, did you need a wingman to have success in dating?

[billiesimon]

I'm learning game, but I almost always go out alone, since I don't really have a wingman. 

Do I need one to become good and get success in my dating life? 

Leo, what's your experience? 

[Leo Gura]

It certainly helps, especially when starting out. If only as emotional support and accountability.

Might as well have fun doing it. It tends to be more fun with wings.

[billiesimon]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

It certainly helps, especially when starting out. If only as emotional support and accountability.

Might as well have fun doing it. It tends to be more fun with wings.

Thanks @Leo Gura!

But can I get good results if I choose to practice solo? 

[bejapuskas]

@billiesimon  That depends entirely on your approach  

[Alex bAlex]

I think you can grow 10x faster doing it alone. If you watch day gamers, they are doing it most by themselves. 

Sure the situation differ if you are going to the club. I have been to the club alone (also no props like alcohol and/or drugs) and start to talk to girls and although people notice that you are alone and you feel like you want to run, doing it alone grows you a lot. And people around you know that it takes a lot of balls to be there by your own. 

A wing might help nonetheless but in the end you have to face your own fears. 

All in all don't let the fact that you don't have a wing put you down. 

Good luck ? 

[Leo Gura]

On 4/21/2019 at 2:08 AM, billiesimon said:

But can I get good results if I choose to practice solo?

Sure, but will you actually do it? That's the issue. Solo is much harder emotionally.

[billiesimon]

7 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Sure, but will you actually do it? That's the issue. Solo is much harder emotionally.

Yes, I'm already doing it

It's been a month and half now. 

But I'm doing it, I have no other choice, I want to learn. 

[billiesimon]

@Leo Gura bu the way, did you start alone or immediately with a wing? 

[Leo Gura]

On 4/23/2019 at 2:59 AM, billiesimon said:

@Leo Gura bu the way, did you start alone or immediately with a wing? 

Both

The first time I went to a club I went solo.

Then I quickly got some wings. They were helpful for something me the ropes and venues.

[Hardkill]

Wings can definitely be helpful if they are really committed to helping you and know what good advice to give you on how to pickup women, and if you are seriously willing to commit to consistently practice with them on a weekly basis if not go out with them every 1 to 3 days/nights with them. Otherwise, they won't be of much help to you. I did go out with some wings a number of times before, but I didn't get the chance to go out with them consistently due to other things going on in my life that got in the way along with the fact that most of them weren't really experts who can guide you effectively like a qualified coach can. So, some wings may not help you learn much faster than you would by yourself and other wings can accelerate your learning curve depending on how much work you are willing to put in consistently with them and how good they are at teaching/guiding you with cold/warm approach.

Also, it is good to learn how to cold/warm approaching by yourself. Going solo will help build your mental fortitude and confidence in yourself. I got most of my good results with women from all of the times I practiced meeting and talking by myself.