The Pick Up Diary

[Arcangelo]

Thanks Pro!

Yesterday I went to my grandma's house. At the bus stop i said Hi to a girl but she ignored me like i was a mosquito. In the bus I met a girl, her name was Angie.

She wasn't interested at all.

And when I hop off the bus I said hi to a girl that ignored me like I was a mosquito again.

[Arcangelo]

Hi, today I went to visit my mom and watch with her Joker. Effing great movie BTW. After watching starwars 9 any movie looks like the best movie in the world.

So I was on the bus and a girl sat next to me, she was talking with other 2 women behind us about their babies. Then the 2 women hop off the bus.

Arc: -''It's so complicated to have kids''

Her: -''Yeah right?''

Arc: -''Do you have kids?''

Her: -''No, all I do is study accounting''

Arc: -''Cool, are you about to finish''

Her: -''Yeah I graduate next year''

Arc: -''That's great''

Her: -''Do you have kids?''

Arc: -''Oh hell no, I will never have kids, actually I gotta go get me a vasectomy one of these days. Kids are waaaay too expensive.''

Her: -''Bla bla bla''

Arc: -Bla bla bla

Her: Bla bla bla

Arc: Would you like to go for a drink some day?

Her: -''No, I can't, bla bla bla''

Arc: -''OK :)''

I really liked this interaction because I was just trying to be friendly, I was totally detached from the outcome, and my smile when she rejected me was so genuine. I bet some of these girls end up thinking later: -''I should have given that dude a shot, but he was a total stranger, what if he is a psycho like Arthur Fleck?''

Stranger Danger

 

See you next time!

Peace

 

Arc

[Arcangelo]

Hi I struck some gold, and I MUST have it in here:

''Laser eye contact

Learning to create a genuine smile on a dime

Firm, commanding tone of voice. Slowing down your rate of speech.

Being relaxed and at ease in your body when talking

Simply lots of socialization and conversation experience (doesn't even have to be with women).

The stuff I talk about in my video: How To Be Funny

The ability to talk about yourself endlessly.

Dressing sharp. Get all of your clothing tailored for slim fit. Groom yourself well. Upgrade your whole wardrobe to be stylish. Develop a sense of style that suits you.

The ability to be playful and laugh at yourself and life

Handle your sexual neediness so that you aren't sexually needy

Develop charisma -- I have a good book about charisma on my book list.

Passion for life. You must be building an awesome life for yourself aside from girls/sex/relationship. The girl should be the least important part of your life. Your life should be so awesome that anyone who comes into contact with you would feel lucky. You must be in love with yourself and your life.

Self-Love. Accept yourself as you are, completely. Be thrilled to be you. Treat yourself as God's gift to the world and to women.'' -Leo Gura

 

The other day at another supermarket I asked a girl

Arc: -''Are you cold?''

Her (w/o eye contact): ''Oh it is noticeable''

 

See you next time!

 

 

Edited February 3, 2020 by Arcangelo
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[Arcangelo]

Hi, yesterday i went for a cup of  coffee to the new supermarket and a girl was behind me>

Arc: -''Did you know that this coffee machine bla bla bla?''

Her: -''Bla Oh really? bla Oh yeah, I see.''

  I walk 2 steps to get my lid.

Her: -''Are these the cups I am supposed to use for this machine?''

  At this point I am thinking: OK, this is escalating...

Arc: -''Yeah, is just that I use this one because I go for the 2x1''

Her: -''Ah, OK.''

Arc: -''My name is Arcangelo.''

She stayed quiet looking at the machine, smiling.

Arc: -''OK good bye, have a nice day.''

 

Then I talked to 2 different girls on 2 different sidewalks but they got nervous.

Then I went to the hostel and I liked the new bartender, I tried to play it cool James Bond style but she gave me zero social cues so I didn't even try, maybe some other day...

After that I went to the casino cause I try my luck everywhere...

My definition of fun: Pick up at the hostel, smoke weed, go to the casino, go home smoke more weed.

There are other hostels at way better locations. My bucket list is to go to those hostels located at earthly paradises.

It is not written in stone and crazier things have happened. I am optimistic.

 

See you next time!

 

 

 

 

[Rebecca Kalamata]

On 2/26/2019 at 7:24 AM, Arcangelo said:

Today i didn't talk to anyone. Just said: -''Thanks'' to the cashier at the supermarket. But yesterday i was on riding my bike and saw a girl and she looked at me and smile. I rode 300 mts and decided to go back and talk to her:

Me: ''Hi i saw you walking and i think you are beautiful and i wanted to come here and ask for you phone number so we can go out''

She: ''OK''

I pulled out my cel and give it to her so she could type her digits in my phone.

Me: ''Can we go out tomorrow?''

She: ''Bla bla bla'' (excuse)

Me: ''Ah OK.''

She: ''But send me a message.''

Me: ''OK Bye.''

After that i opened my arms to hint her that i was going to hug her good bye. We hugged and i kissed her in the cheek. And that was it. I haven't called her yet. Calling her tomorrow for sure. She said she was busy today anyway.

I know this is an old post but I was blown away by the animosity that I read in a more recent thread so I went back to dig a little and came upon this one. First off, I am attractive but I am not beautiful. I don't like the first words out of a guy's mouth to be a lie. 

Second, off I don't want full body contact with a man I just met.

Just be real. Most available women are looking for a relationship. Just suck it up and become the type of man a woman will want to be in a relationship with. That's the price for good sex.

[Arcangelo]

Thanks Reb!

About a week ago i asked out the cashier of the new supermarket, her name is Joselyn

Arc: -''At what time are you out?''

Jos: -''In the afternoon.''

Arc: -''Would you like me to meet you here so we can go for a drink somewhere?''

Jos: -''Oh I gotta go to the bank bla bla, I don' t even know at what time I am gonna get home bla bla.''

Arc: -''Oh I was saying before you go to the bank...''

Jos: -''Ahh, ehh some other day''

Arc: -''OK some other day''

No eye contact from Joselyn

 

Today I met Sofia

Arc: -''Are you waiting for an Uber?''

Sof: -''Yeah, is it that obvious?''

Arc: -''Yeah, bla bla bla''

Sof: -''bla bla bla''

Arc: -''Would you like to go out for a drink some day?''

Sof: -''I can't I have a boyfriend bla bla''

Arc: -''OK, thanks bye''

 

I should have definitely keep talking to her until the Uber showed up, and try to close at the last moment, but i didn't...Now I know what to do next time.

 

See you!

 

[Ananta]

@Arcangelo Are these women 20 yrs younger, like the grocery store? If so, perhaps you'd have better luck with women your own age? Just wondering. Theres some hot 40 year olds ya know. When I was 40 my son's 18 yo friends would hit on me. ?

[Arcangelo]

IDK I seek them to be 25-35 yo preferably, but I wouldn't mind a 24yo or a 39 yo going through my girlfriend selection screening process.

For example today's interaction>

I have been waving and saying hi to a girl from the neighborhood, when riding my bike to or from my McDonald's gig, and today I stopped because i was on my way back so I had time to get to know her:

Arc: -''Hi what's your name?''

Flor: -''My name is Flor''

Arc: -''My name is Arcangelo.''

Arc: -''Do you live near?''

Flor: -''No''

Arc: -''Where do you live?''

Flor: -''Near''

Arc: -''That's what I asked, if you lived near?''

Flor: -''Bla bla''

Arc: -''Would you like to go for a drink sometime?''

Flor: -''I can't today, bla bla''

Arc: -''Well give me your number and we can go some other time''

Flor: -''I would rather you giving me your phone number''

Arc: -''OK bla bla bye''

 

She was like 26-28 yo, curly hair, brown skin and big eyes.

 

See you next time!

 

Edited February 14, 2020 by Arcangelo
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[Ananta]

6 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

IDK I seek them to be 25-35 yo

For example today's interaction>

I have been waving and saying hi to a girl from the neighborhood, when riding my bike to or from my McDonald's gig, and today I stopped because i was on my way back so I had time to get to know her:

Arc: -''Hi what's your name?''

Flor: -''My name is Flor''

Arc: -''My name is Arcangelo.''

Arc: -''Do you live near?''

Flor: -''No''

Arc: -''Where do you live?''

Flor: -''Near''

Arc: -''That's what I asked, if you lived near?''

Flor: -''Bla bla''

Arc: -''Would you like to go for a drink sometime?''

Flor: -''I can't today, bla bla''

Arc: -''Well give me your number and we can go some other time''

Flor: -''I would rather you giving me your phone number''

Arc: -''OK bla bla bye''

 

She was like 26-28 yo, curly hair, brown skin and big eyes.

 

See you next time!

 

Can I be honest?

20+ years olds don't want a 40 year old man, typically. When I was 20+ there would have been no way in hell!

If they knew you from work or play and got to know "you" and fell for "you", then maybe. Otherwise, you are wasting your time. No wonder you aren't getting dates and getting pissed about it. 

[Arcangelo]

4 minutes ago, Anna1 said:

you are wasting your time. No wonder you aren't getting dates and getting pissed about it. 

Thanks for the motivation!

 

Arc

[Ananta]

Just now, Arcangelo said:

Thanks for the motivation!

 

Arc

Sorry. I actually was trying to help by being real and not blowing smoke up your ass. 

[Ananta]

I don't tell ppl just what they might want to hear. I tell them what I think they need to hear. 

[Arcangelo]

No problemo, you were just being honest. I have seen how you help people with your medical knowledge, I respect you. You are cool Anna1

 

 

 

[Ananta]

4 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

No problemo, you were just being honest. I have seen how you help people with your medical knowledge, I respect you. You are cool Anna1

 

 

 

Thank you. I appreciate it. Hey, and I'm 49, older then you, so I'm not knocking your age. Just saying you may find more success in sex and love if you set your sights a bit older. There are attractive older women. 

[Arcangelo]

For sure there are, and the conversations are much much better the closer the age gap is.

[Ananta]

7 minutes ago, Arcangelo said:

For sure there are, and the conversations are much much better the closer the age gap is.

Absolutely, and appreciation of the same music, lol. If someone can't appreciate a good 80's song, forget em'. ?

After my step mom (who raised me) died many years ago my dad married a woman 20 yrs younger.  They had nothing but problems and then divorced. She then found someone younger.

[Lynnel]

14 hours ago, Arcangelo said:

Arc: -''Do you live near?''

 

Flor: -''No''

Arc: -''Where do you live?''

Flor: -''Near''

Arc: -''That's what I asked, if you lived near?''

Unless you are very well calibrated this is a hard no.

If you look even slightly creepy those questions are gonna create anxiety in her mind about her possible safety. That's why she avoided answering in the first place.

Don't.

Also for the love of god don't train on random girls in your neighbourhood - go out to bars and clubs and upgrade your skills there.

Don't worry age has mostly nothing to do with this - your social skills do.

Best of luck

[Ananta]

3 hours ago, Lynnel said:

Don't worry age has mostly nothing to do with this - your social skills do.

That's your opinion. I can say, I was never attracted to an older guy and I dont just mean looks. I just didn't find it appealing.

[Lynnel]

1 hour ago, Anna1 said:

That's your opinion. I can say, I was never attracted to an older guy and I dont just mean looks, ever. 

Maybe you've never met an attractive guy who was older ?

Either way you can't assume it's the case for everyone and while he can do nothing about his age he can work and should work on his social skills.

[Ananta]

1 hour ago, Lynnel said:

Maybe you've never met an attractive guy who was older ?

Either way you can't assume it's the case for everyone and while he can do nothing about his age he can work and should work on his social skills.

I wasn't speaking in absolutes (wasn't meaning to at least), but you seemed to be, when you said age didn't have to do with it. It can and sometimes does. I'm not saying, then or now, that it's not done or possible (my dad married a woman 20 yrs younger), but it's not the norm, imo. Some women are even creeped out by it (ie, dont want to date someone old enough to be their dad).