The Pick Up Diary

[Arcangelo]

Hi today I met a girl when I was taking a break during my MTB ride, her name is Adriana.

Arc: -''Hi, you work at the cafeteria right?''

Adr: -''Yes me and her'' She pointed to a girl sitting behind me.

Arc: -''And what about you?'' I was talking to another girl that was talking to Adriana.

OG: -''No, I don't''

Adr: -''But if you want her to serve you we can make her serve you, hahaha!

Arc: -''Hahaha!''

Arc: -''I recognized you because I was here last sunday and I saw you working the cafeteria. My name is Arcangelo nice to meet you''

Adr: -''My name is Adriana nice to meet you too''

Arc: -''Hey Adriana would you like to go out for a drink some time''

Adr (smiling and laughing): -''No, I don't know you''

Arc: -''Well maybe I can keep coming, and we will get to know each other, and then you can accept my invitation to go out for a drink someday.But hey have a nice day, it was nice to meet you''

And I left saying: -''Bye Adriana see you later!''

I said it because I saw her turning her head as I was leaving.

 

 

You know how some guys talk about the 3 second rule? You don't need that when you know you have balls.

 

See you next time.

[Arcangelo]

Since the Covid I have made 3 approaches only. Covid is the perfect excuse to not approach.

Cristina

Another Adriana

Since I had to move from my place because of the fucking Covid. I now have 3 clean slate supermarkets where I can go and practice pick up. Yesterday I approached a girl respecting the social distancing rules

-Hi young lady, can I ask your name?

-For what?

-To ask you out.

-No, thank you very much.

-OK

 

See you next time.

[JessiChell]

@Arcangelo

This journal is the coolest fucking thing I've read on this forum. It's like a movie. I'm rooting for you!

Some things that rub me the wrong way is, you're so quick to ask out. I feel like there may be a generation gap thing. I would feel more comfortable with a man asking for my number or social media and getting to know them before committing my real life time to them. 

May I ask, why instead of making it about pick-up, make it about becoming a flirting master? 

So I'm similar to you in a way that I hunt men. (I'm not right now because of inner work blah blah) 

I'm an attractive woman so I do get asked out a lot. However, the men that have been my boyfriends are men that I've studied, observed at a distance, interacted with socially and then have created some form of banter between us. They are usually charismatic and have a lot of women chasing them, therefore I have to have an edge. 

The edge I've chosen is humor and banter. Now, you can use this skill for others you care about so it's not just pick up techniques. (It makes people feel good and want to be around you)

If I banter with a man and he effectively banters back, I know we will have chemistry. 

What if you switched up your goal for the next week? 

Instead of going for a kill (date, stating your immediate attraction), try to get a fucking ridiculous laugh out of a girl. One in which she actually snorts or laughs stupidly. And when she snorts/does embarrassing laugh, poke fun at her snort/laugh (in a playful way) not a mean way. 

Example of play way:

You - tell joke or talk to her a bit until you can slide somehting funny in

Girl - laughs obnoxious or snorts

You - *laugh a little at her, put your hand very lightly on her shoulder* (physical touch is key to start a woman to feel safe. If you touch her in a very platonic way she will feel "safe")

You - *begin to walk away while still looking at her and making faces and casually laughing* wave your hand, and say "see you darling"

At this point, just leave. If she calls back to you then maybe consider asking for her number. This will take practice. Women will gravitate to you. 

This is what women want. Even if they dont know it. It shows you're not desperate. Which is what the immediate kill signifies. We smell it as you approach. 

They want to be teased a little. It shows your confident with your words and makes me think you're dominant in bed. 

I will answer any questions you have. I'm so excited for you, keep journaling!

 

[Arcangelo]

@JessiChell  Wow!

Thanks! Will do.

I have been thinking about writing a book titled: 1000 Girls This journal is the draft.

Approaching, intimacy, being in a relationship, those are scary things for me. But (most of the time) I don't let fear control me.

Thanks again Jessi!

 

See you next time!

[LfcCharlie4]

@Arcangelo Hey man, I found this really inspiring, I've never really done much Daygame, only really Night and Online, I was wondering what guys you are following if any? 

I'm recently getting back into dating as I am single again, so have started getting back into it, I don't like to call it Pick Up, as that assumes so many things, and the last thing I want to do is manipulate or hurt anyone, for me it's more about becoming the best man I can be (holistic self-development) while developing my dating & social skills. 

Please remember though a lot of these guys are typical Stage Orange and the teachings need to be made more conscious in most contexts. 

There's a lot of shitty coaches out there, but there's also some great ones for learning the fundamentals. 

I wouldn't call off Tinder too soon, if you optimize your profile you could end up getting a lot of matches and dates- I recommend checking out 'Playing With Fire' for their Tinder guides to give you a brief overview. 

Since you're into Daygame, there's a guy on YouTube called Bradicus who does a lot of daygame travelling the world and what not. He was a huge hard case, and I think he mentioned he believed he has a mild case of Aspergers, but has transformed his own dating life, check him out. 

Would love to connect more man, as most people in this PU 'community' are pretty toxic and manipulative sadly, which is why I don't like to call it that even!

[Arcangelo]

Hi @LfcCharlie4  I don't follow anyone.

Check out this example:

He's got a lot of $$$ so he's got the confidence even though he is old and bald...

[Arcangelo]

Thanks LfcCharlie4!

Hi, the other day I went MTBing with a good friend. We got to a place that sells cheese and sour cream in a rural area. Next to this place was the last bus stop. There was a woman and a girl waiting for the bus. They were not wearing face masks. The girl was slim, pale skin, blonde and had blue eyes...

 

Arc: -''Good Morning''

Woman and Girl: -''Good morning''

Arc: ''Is this the last bus stop?''

Woman and Girl: -''Yes''

Arc (talking directly to the girl): -''Hey girl what's your name?''

Woman: -''Cecilia''

Arc (talking directly to the girl, again): -''And what's your name?''

Valeria: -''Valeria''

I waited for them to ask my name, but they didn't. I rejected my self, but then I said fuck it:

Arc: -''Hey Valeria, you said your name was Valeria right?  Would you like to go out and drink a cup of coffee with me someday?''

Valeria (visibly hesitating): -''No''

 

This interaction showed me that I gotta get me some cards to give them when they hesitate. So next time...

Arc: -''Hey, if you change your mind give me a call.''

 

This Covid is not making things any easier, gotta tell you.

 

See you next time

Peace!

Edited January 25, 2021 by Arcangelo

[Arcangelo]

''You have to go into it with the attitude that you are "the shit". You gotta have the mentality of if this girl dont wanna fuck me, then I'll go find someone who will. Because you ain't got time for that shit. To yourself you gotta be the man, and just with that sort of attitude and confidence of, if they ain't fuckin with me, then I ain't fuckin with them. Girls will fiend for you, they will dream about you. Dont overly worry about your looks, that's for bisexual and gay guys. Girls want you to be well-groomed and have a "I am the shit" mentality. You gotta be a legend to yourself and know that if this girl doesn't want to hangout with you, you ain't gonna tolerate it. You'll move on. I know you want to be caring and compassionate towards her, but you just gotta be ruthless, dangerous, and unattached. She wants to look at you as this image of man that she fiends for, not the other way round.''

-DiamondPenguin (forum member)

 

Something like this:

 

[Arcangelo]

So the other day I went to a supermarket in my car and I saw a beautiful girl. She had ear expansions, she was a blonde and her eyes were like green with yellow. I couldn't help myself and I started small talking about what she was buying, she said she was buying a lighter. I asked her if it was a marijuana lighter and she was like: -''No no, it is a lighter for my kitchen ''

Me: -''I used to have a gas kitchen, those are really fast. But you know what? Now I have a halogen kitchen and it's almost as fast''

That was a subtle  Brag because you know I have my vitroceramics.

Yeah so she was in line behind me and I I went about my business because she was just nodding when I started saying that I had a gas kitchen and blah blah blah.  So I made the payment and I kind of stall a little bit so I could casually ask her if she needed a Uber Ride on the way out because you know I was riding my car and she said: -''No''

It would have been nice if she would have said yes, but she said no, after that I went to the parking lot and I saw her running.

The day after I went to my usual Supermarket on my bike, on my nice Bike by the way, on my expensive bike, and I of course had a chain lock. I saw a beautiful girl and I saw a dude just checking her out but not talking to her and I said to myself this is the perfect example to be an alpha male and have the balls to go talk to her instead of just looking at her like an idiot, like a fucking pervert. The guy almost broke his neck looking at her and yeah she was a looker and I didn't close on this one I just talked to her: -''Hey can you watch my bike?'' and she was like: -''You don't have a chain lock?''

ME: -''Yes, but they can still steal the front wheel''

and she said

Mariana: -''I think there are cameras here'' 

and I said to her

ME: -''Yeah, look there's a camera there'' and then she was like: ''Okay I'm waiting for my mom, I'll watch it while I'm here''

ME: -''What's your name''

HER: -''Mariana'' 

ME: -''My name is Arcangelo''

I think I had to ask her twice for her name ,so maybe that's why I didn't try to close.

I did try to close the girl with the blonde hair because she was so beautiful. This other girl, she was dressed super sexy and she had a dog by the way, she also had curled hair and she had glasses. I didn't close because I sensed it was a dead end, cuz I could have stayed and talked to her about her dog, that's a good conversation starter.

That's the report, that's all I have for now guys. More to come soon, I have overcome the pandemic mental block.

 

See you next time!

[RossE]

I fucking love this thread.

I've been in a solid relationship for three years and right now could never do what you do.

Kudos. I hope you strike gold! 

[Arcangelo]

Thanks @RossE !

So the other day I went  to buy some weed and I was at the cashier taking money out. I saw a woman in the parking lot getting into her car, it was a  blue Hyundai Accent, hash back. I went to her (it was raining)  and introduce myself but she didn't roll the window down. Today I went to the grocery store and there were two girls  in front of me, with the pandemic only one person can get in the store so one of them got in the store and when I was able to get in the store the girl told me

Unknown Girl: -''Hey, why you bring your bike into the store?

Arc: -''So they don't steal it from me?''

She said nothing. Then I heard the other girl telling her: -''You're taking too long, we're going to have to roll that joint inside the store.''

I finished my grocery shopping and when they were both out I told them: ''Hey can I chip in a dollar and smoke that joint with you girls?''

One of them looked at the other like saying: -''It's cool with me, is it cool with you?'' They said all this telepathically.

Arc: -''My name is Arcangelo''

Unknown Girl: ''Her name is Vanessa''

I got the hint.

I talked more to Vanessa and Vanessa was making eye contact. I gave Vanessa my phone number and tell her to call me by Wednesday or something because I'm off on Thursday

 

Peace

Edited July 26, 2021 by Arcangelo
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[Arcangelo]

BTW I had been painting under the sun, so I smelled and I had my working clothes (rags) on.

There are NO EXCUSES  to not talk to women you are attracted to.

I made all kind of mistakes. One doesn't need to be perfect.

[Arcangelo]

Hey guys it's me again! The other day I went to the ATM in front of a park, and I saw a beautiful blonde. Fake blonde actually but I had to take out my money first so I took it out and saw her again and I parked my car and get out of the car and ask her if I could talk to her but she said no then after that I hop in my car and I told her: ''-Hey I'm an Uber maybe I can give you a ride.'' But she said no.

And yesterday I went to buy a car cover for my Honda Civic (I got rid of the Chevy, crashed that POS and gave it back) and I went to a spot called: The Bitter Street and I saw a beautiful redhead with blue eyes. She was with another girl who was good-looking too and I was riding in my car, in my Honda Civic with the sunroof top and s*** and I told her:

''-Hey do you need a ride? I'm an Uber''

and she smiled at me and looked at me in the eyes and said: "-No we're good.''

After that I went around the block a couple of times through The Bitter Street and I saw her again. She was in front of a club  I went and talked to her, introduced myself, their names were Melodie and Sara and we talked for a while (5-7 minutes) and we shook hands at the beginning... extended handshake holding hands basically...me letting go first...

Eye contact... I was hypnotized... I am going to marry this woman...

Then we talked about me being an Uber and I I told her that I wanted to take them home and I was like...

Arc: -''Look I'm really an Uber''

Mel and Sarah: -''We believe you, we believe you!''

and I showed them the the app with my picture in it.

I gave her my phone so she could type in her digits and that was it. I'm going to call her in a couple of days... 

I really, really enjoyed the interaction I was still attached to the outcome. If you want to be successful paradoxically you got to be  completely detached from the outcome.

Afterwards we held hands again... This time me not letting go first but still kinda... Savoring the moment...

 

 

See you next time!

Peace.

[Arcangelo]

On 10/13/2021 at 1:29 PM, Arcangelo said:

in my Honda Civic with the sunroof top and s***

Though you may not drive a big big Cadillac
Gangster whitewalls, TV antenna in the back

You may not have a car at all
But just remember brothers and sisters
You can still stand tall
Just be thankful for what you've got

Though you may not drive a big big Cadillac
(Diamonds in the back, sunroof top diggin' the scene with the gangster lean)
Gangster whitewalls, TV antenna in the back

You may not have a car at all
But just remember brothers and sisters
You can still stand tall
Just be thankful for what you've got

Though you may not drive a big big Cadillac
Gangster whitewalls, TV antenna in the back

You may not have a car at all
But just remember brothers and sisters
You can still stand tall
Just be thankful for what you've got

Diamonds in the back, sunroof top, diggin' the scene
With the gangster lean, oh, oh, oh
Diamonds in the back
Diamonds in the back, sunroof top, diggin' the scene
With the gangster lean, oh, oh, oh

Diamonds in the back, sunroof top, diggin' the scene
With the gangster lean, oh, oh, oh
Diamonds in the back, sunroof top, diggin' the scene
With the gangster lean, oh, oh, oh

 

                           Songwriters: William DeVaughan

[Arcangelo]

Thanks for the videos Leo.

[ZenRising]

Hi there @Arcangelo .... this thread is giving me a  lot of inspiration ... like you, I'm not interested in loud nighclubs anymore... I'm just trying to get back out there and approaching after a long absence... (long-term relationship which ended a while back)... my game and self-confidence are shot, and I need to build them back... reading your journal has been great... I hope you keep it coming...

[Arcangelo]

Thank you @ZenRising !

I have a story for you guys. The other day I was doing the Uber gig on a late Saturday night, and I picked up three girls. One of them was okay and they were kind of drunk and the girl that was kind of okay told me...

Daniela: -"Hey have you seen the movie Scary Movie?

Arc: -"I haven't seen it, but I know what it is about.''

Daniela: -"Is because I would like to do what they did in that movie: they pull out their head over the sunroof top on that movie.''

Arc: -"Well we'll have to wait when we are close to the destination to do that, but you cannot sit on the roof top.''

Daniela: -"No I just want to pull my head out and if you want I can pull your head out.'' 

Arc: -"For sure.''

Daniela: -"Oops I think I exceeded myself, I think I went too far.''

Then they started talking about something else. At the end of the trip I asked for her phone number she was hesitant but she gave it to me.

 

See you next time!

Peace.

Edited December 14, 2021 by Arcangelo
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[Arcangelo]

Hi, the other day I approached a girl named Mariana at the supermarket, but she had a boyfriend.

She had long curled, brown hair, she did a gesture like almost closing her eyes, like she was flattered, or acting like she was, or a little bit of both.

 

[Arcangelo]

On 10/13/2021 at 1:29 PM, Arcangelo said:

we shook hands at the beginning... extended handshake holding hands basically...me letting go first...

This is what I should have said/done:

''You wanna let my hand go''

illustrates it perfectly.

Edited March 29, 2022 by Arcangelo

[Niti]

You have the confidence of a god! I love how you don't give up even after getting rejected. However, at this point, it probably has to do with your looks. Maybe you should go to the gym and get shredded or something.