I let myself pursue sex again after Leo's recent posts

[Amadeusz]

So I feel like I progress on my path, but I'm a baby Leo; After he's recently posted many posts on Dating about one night stands and picking up women, clubing and so on, he enabled me to pursue sex again. It's liberating, but at the same time I see that I'm super dependent on his ideology. Should I break free? What do you think? 

[Hello from Russia]

You can "pursue" sex by just getting a nice girlfriend and commiting to long term relationship with her. It is even better for sex as you'll be able to have it consistenly this way and your sex will improve overtime as you both get better at it and bond closer to each other

 

[SgtPepper]

Just follow your heart. you're just denying yourself your true desires if you need Leo to validate them. The only person you truly need validation from is yourself. Do you want to have one night stands and go clubbing? why?

[Amadeusz]

I feel like I wanna do it. Last time I followed this strategy I found my gf. It was like something clicked with one girl and then I lost interest in pursuing many. I want to do it to be more masculine. After 3 years of not having sex taking psychodelics I became more spiritual and stuff but my pendulum swung too far. now I feel like I wanna solidify my pyramid at the bottom pursue sex and feel free, because now I'm still a little awkward with socialising and girls. But maybe that's my sneaky ego coming back?

The problem is though that Leo kinda let me do it. He's like my guru and that's a little unhealthy?

Edited February 22, 2019 by Amadeusz

[Leo Gura]

@Amadeusz You young people who follow me have to understand that I talk about extremely advanced stuff (nowadays). Really, really, really advanced stuff! It took me tens of years of earthly development before I got to the lofty topics I'm now covering. There are many earthly materialistic development topics which I hardly cover at all even though they are very important for the average viewer.

It's sort of like I'm teaching a college calculus class but you walk in by accident as a 5th grader. You need to handle the basics first.

What most of you guys need is some basic Tony Robbins shit. Do some of that before you try to get all spiritual. Be mindful of getting ahead of your skiis.

[Waves]

@Leo Gura  What do you suggest is a good balance to strike between handling basic needs and cultivating a spiritual sense? Or, put in other words, what amount/what kind of spiritual work do you feel is to be prioritized to slowly set the foundations for pursuing awakening later in life while the focus is on working on life purpose, developing a business, improving social and dating skills, ecc.? 

I know I want to handle the basics first, but I also don't want to abandon and forget about spirituality.

 

[Leo Gura]

@Waves There is no way to formulate that balance. It will be unique for each person, and it will even change for the same person over time.

You must experiment and see what works best for you.

You can certainly maintain a 1hr daily meditation practice or Kriya yoga practice while you do pickup or dating. That's the minimum I'd recommend.

Generally speaking you should set an overarching goal/plan for your year. What is the biggest thing you'll be focusing on this year? Attraction? Enlightenment? Business? Improving self esteem? Better nutrition? etc.

Don't try to do it all at once. Space things out. You'll be amazed how much stuff you can do in 5-10 years if you focus.

[Shadowraix]

7 hours ago, Amadeusz said:

The problem is though that Leo kinda let me do it. He's like my guru and that's a little unhealthy?

Yeah if you don't quit this it'll backfire on you.

You'll become ideological. Which it seems like you already are to some degree.

Especially if you are 'dependent' on 'HIS' ideology.

Edited February 23, 2019 by Shadowraix

[Sahil Pandit]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

@Waves

Don't try to do it all at once. Space things out. You'll be amazed how much stuff you can do in 5-10 years if you focus.

 

[SFRL]

@Amadeusz

 

[Jordan94]

As everybody said just go follow what your heart/motivation is at the moment, in that case pickup

I will add though, you can also try to implement with pickup a (tiny) bit of the more advanced (spiritual) stuff that you seem interested in as well, for example, the whole aspect of getting a good presence/groundedness, that's 100% meditation/spirituality, not being result oriented is also highly related to equanimity/acceptance which is a facet of meditation as well, related also to shadow work/emotional healing

Etc, like this there is a lot of good ways where pickup and meditation for example overlap, you can put a bit more focus/openeness on those areas (while keeping your main focus on pickup most likely given what you seem to say you're at now)

[Aeris]

attractive reinforcement spiritual books, anyone ?