Decision Making - How To Know Whats Good?

[Light_Ray]

Hi there,

 

Currently I am on a crucial point in my life, having to decide if at all and which education to choose. I am carrying this decision now in my mind for like three weeks making me depressive and weak. I feel inable to decide.

In general I am hesitant in deciding things because I fear to choose wrong.

Do you know any technique to make decisions easily and quick? For big and small decisions? Iam have also difficulties to feel my gut feelings because there is mostly tension and fear, you know.

As Leo says in Video about the model of human knowledge, you can doubt everything and thats what I mostly do. I doubt everything, nothing can be said for sure.

 

Thanks for answering

Edited April 16, 2016 by Light_Ray

[Henri]

@Light_Ray  How does one deal with self-doubt? Understand doubt: doubt is always about something that is good. Someone tells you ‘I love you’, you ask them ‘Really?’, and they say ‘I hate you’, you never ask ‘Really?’ So, a doubt is always about something good. You doubt your abilities; you never doubt your weaknesses. You doubt happiness, you never doubt misery. Isn’t it? Nobody doubts their depression. ‘But well, I’m not sure if I’m happy or not, well I'm not sure'. So when you understand that the doubt is always about something that’s positive, your mind shifts to a level, a different level altogether.
Doubt is simply low prana. If you do more pranayams you will see that you have come about that.

[charlie2dogs]

Light_ray  when one lacks the knowledge and understanding of things, it is easy to be in doubt.  Knowledge and understanding comes from experience.  See this doubt as a step in the right direction, allow this doubt to cause you to question yourself and where you are in your personal growth.  Inside of you is a great power, it is the source of life, be quiet, be still, spend time with it, it will take you through the hard places and give you peace and joy in your life and a better understanding of things.