Met this coworker...

[LiakosN]

Hey what's up!

I met a woman in my workplace (I am working as a school teacher). We know each other for 1,5 months. We have go out into clubs with other co-workers and we have discussed some great things about our lives and personalities. I guess she might be an empath. Anyway. She is 30 and I am 27 years old. I told her one night that we were in a club: hey I like you erotically but I truly want you as a friend. And I really want her for a friend but I also want to have sex with her.

We discuss a lot of things together and she feels (as she told me) that she talks to me like she talks to her best friend. The other day I invited her to my apartment until late at night and the time was 2 a.m when she told me: " I need to go now because I am sleepy ", but I haven't driven that late at night (but she has because she returns home by her car when we leave the club at 3 or 4 a.m.). So I offered her to sleep with me. And she did.

She is very lovable and caring about me as I can tell. One day when my phone rang and I went outside the coffee shop to talk, she brought me my jacket. 

Anyways I really want to be sincere with her and tell her " Do you wanna have sex with me " ? Should I tell it? 

[Ananta]

Um, is she not GF material?

You just want friends with benefits? 

 

Edited February 11, 2019 by Anna1

[SFRL]

Don't tell her. Just get her to your place and make your moves. 

[LiakosN]

@Anna1 She is, but I am interested in more beautiful women for relationship.

[LiakosN]

@SFRL what if she rejects my moves.. I was thinking of going to her place and asking her for a twerk because she loves it 

[ajasatya]

10 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@SFRL what if she rejects my moves.. I was thinking of going to her place and asking her for a twerk because she loves it 

this is your weakness. your fear of rejection might get you rejected in the end.

[Shin]

Approach her as if she was already yours.

Don't be too pushy or physical if you don't see clear signs of interest though.

Edited February 12, 2019 by Shin

[Ananta]

2 hours ago, LiakosN said:

@Anna1 She is, but I am interested in more beautiful women for relationship.

? So, you just want to use her.... so you can get off. If that's the case, be a decent person and ask if she's interested in a FWB situation, otherwise she may think u have intentions of making her ur GF when u dont. 

[SFRL]

4 hours ago, LiakosN said:

@SFRL what if she rejects my moves.. I was thinking of going to her place and asking her for a twerk because she loves it 

What if she does? 

You are not that interested in her right? So if she rejects you then what is the problem really? 

I would just not ask, because she seems to want it anyways from what I got from the background story. 

Asking is not very sexy. It's not seductive. You making your moves is. It's more erotic. 

[SFRL]

6 hours ago, ajasatya said:

this is your weakness. your fear of rejection might get you rejected in the end.

Don't get too smug.

Edited February 12, 2019 by SFRL

[LiakosN]

She asked me to go for a glass of whine these days.. So I guess I ll make my moves there.