how to react to people who shout at us?

[Lacru]

Hi! I would like to tell you that I am pursuing your activity and I like it very much, but I did not understand very well some ideas. In a video, you talk about controlling negative thoughts and how nothing from outside can do to affect us. In another video you talk about toxic people and how to quit them.
These statements are not contradicted because outsiders should not let them affect us.
What should we do in the case of people who shout at us? Let us react if it does how to do that. If not, how can we do that? Thank you! Good day to have! ☺

Edited February 9, 2019 by Lacru

[Arhattobe]

This guy gets it

edit: I said this when this post was in Romanian or some language completely. As a joke,.

Edited February 9, 2019 by Arhattobe

[Aquarius]

@Lacru  Shout back this: "si eu te iubesc!!".  

(tr. - I love you too!)

Edited February 10, 2019 by Aquarius

[Truth Addict]

@Lacru

It varies.

You'll learn what to do and how to do it by time. Time gives experience, and experience is all you need.

There's no specific response to anything at all, and most of the times the reaction comes spontaneously.

You need to know what you want and how to get it. Just simple as this.

@Arhattobe ?

[Jack River]

In this case..

Insight = innaction which is holistic action. 

Without insight we respond according to our memory (accumulated subject/objects experiences). 

In this case reaction is never spontaneous.  Reaction has it s root in thought(subject/object) response, which is always tethered by the past(time). 

So inherently the response is limited to that of the old. Which means it’s a continuation of what has already been, therefore mechanical conditioned pattern triggered by external stimulus. 

It’s a response with its root in habit registration/recollection which is then projected on to the present as another subject/object experience—duality). In this case experience itself is the enemy. 

Thought can never anticipate the new and act spontaneously (holistically/intelligently) when being limited by that of the old(thought). 

Pretty important thread. Especially with all us assholes around here heh?

Edited February 10, 2019 by Jack River

[Jack River]

how to react to people who shout at us?

We can use such experiences to explore our reactions to the other persons words/physical reaction. Observe yourself in relationship in that experience. Observe how we interpret the experience in regards to our own self image. How we react to our resistance in relationship to that interaction. How the thought brings upon the emotion, feeling, and bodily sensations in association to that interaction and so on. 

Edited February 10, 2019 by Jack River

[Aquarius]

17 hours ago, Arhattobe said:

edit: I said this when this post was in Romanian or some language completely. As a joke,.

@Arhattobe Oh, how the tables have turned.  

 

@Lacru Stay calm and observe the person.