My gf doesn't let me do any spiritual work

[ShugendoRa]

What should I do? 

[Shadowraix]

Set your priorities. You let her not allow you to do spiritual work. She can't actually stop you. Is spiritual work important to you? Do you want a girlfriend who would project her own beliefs onto you and not let you do what is important to you?

You have to talk this out with her. There are a few routes that can happen.

1. She agrees to let you and you do it.

2. She doesn't agree but you do it anyway and she deals with it.

3. She doesn't agree and you let her desires override yours.

4. She doesn't agree and you break up with her to do it.

Stick to what feels true to you. You have your own path. You'll have many girlfriends but also many chances to do spiritual work. You are going to have to decide what you want out of life.

[isness is my bizness]

[Gabriel Antonio]

Be more specific.

[Mu_]

4 hours ago, ShugendoRa said:

What should I do? 

What doesn't she let you do?  Its up to you to figure out your priorities and let her know.  If you can't then it can create distrust, frustration and control that you will want to attack back at in other ways.

[wavydude]

Depends on what you mean by spiritual work becouse if she dosen't let you meditate or do yoga do not care what she say but if she's concerned with you weekly tripping balls on shrooms her concerns might be justified 

[non_nothing]

Not resisting and doing nothing about spiritual work and following her words is also the spiritual work. Even the essence of spirituality itself is here. Presented you in a golden case.

[ShugendoRa]

Thank you all. I have used a hybrid of advices here. You guys are awesome. Time to elevate! ???

[TheAvatarState]

@ShugendoRa get a new gf. Not letting your SO do something like spiritual practice is a huge red flag. You COULD try to convince her that what you're doing is beneficial, but it usually never works out when you try to change other people. Don't waste your time with people who bring you down. 

[Amun]

Confront your gf about this and do it as a spiritual practice

[Leo Gura]

Best excuse EVAR!

[Tony 845]

@ShugendoRa  next. Lol ??

[SOUL]

Wait, how does someone stop another from doing inner work? Haha

[Sockrattes]

WHY???

And HOW???

 

If she has really so much power over you, then she will leave you for the guy she's having sex with right now, anyway. ^^

Never forget: Sexual partners are bonus and not essentiell.

If you want to keep her (god knows why) stop pleasing her.

Edited January 13, 2019 by Sockrattes

[Shin]

Tell her you will do whatever the fuck you want, and if she continues to be an annoying bitch afterwards about it, ditch her.

 

Edited January 13, 2019 by Shin

[Esoteric]

Sounds like an awesome and healthy relationship.

[Tony 845]

@ShugendoRa do self inquiry all day long, she can't stop you from  asking yourself "who am I" ?

[Matt8800]

On 1/11/2019 at 9:26 PM, ShugendoRa said:

What should I do? 

Why would you ever be in a relationship with someone that tells you what you can and cannot do? How are you going to take responsibility for your own evolution?