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[SageModeAustin]

i am really regretting things i've done in the past and i cannot let them go..It also really bothers me because I couldn't see myself being in a relationship with them knowing what i've done or lying about it.

[kira]

Hi the Austin

 

I think we are both on the same boat. I  have been through some hard times on my relationship. This weekend was horrible.. from verbal abuse to physical abuse from both of our parts. To breaking stuff... 

It happened in the past already and ahe had forgive me and i have forgiven her.

And after a constant 3 weeks of arguing. Plus the horrible weekend where we both lost it. We are back in some soort of honymoon phase.

Im not gonna blame her for the things she has done. But im taking full responsibility for my actions. And i cant allowed myself to go to that place again. I cant let go of what we have done to each other what i have done to her.

I can't allow myself to ever hurt her again. 

But its so hard to let go of her. 

 

Why don't you tell me more of ur situation?

[Charlotte]

@SageModeAustin Take your own signature advice and do what is needed ❤️

[purerogue]

So you are basically looking for their forgiveness, which you can get if you can make open conversation in a right way, it could even make relationships way stronger, now question is can you do it at right moment and in right way. 

[Maya_0]

Acceptance is key. Accept the past and accept yourself because what happened was out of your control anyway. It takes insight into the truth of no-self to see this fully. The mind was just doing it's old monkey thing, getting into trouble and causing suffering like it always has. That was out of your control. So accept that and move from here. Understand that the karma will come back, so from here, try not to create any more bad karma.