Sh*t Test

[Sahil Pandit]

@aurum

Why do women sh*t test guys? 

Edited December 12, 2018 by Sahil Pandit
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[Shin]

11 minutes ago, Sahil Pandit said:

@aurum

Why do women sh*t test guys? 

She needs to feel that you can handle yourself emotionally wise, and not act or say anything to please her just because she asked for it.

This is because as a man you are energetically speaking the one who has the role of the leader, and she can't trust you with that if you can't stand your ground when she shit test you.
How could she trust you to be a leader, if you can't handle her petty shit tests ?

She needs that, because the feminine wants to surrender, totally.
How could she surrender to someone who doesn't look like he can handle things as easy as a shit test ?

[Sahil Pandit]

@Shin i bow to u, sensei.

[aurum]

5 hours ago, Sahil Pandit said:

@aurum

Why do women sh*t test guys? 

I don’t really think about shit tests. It does happen, but it can make you paranoid if you think there’s all these tests you have to pass. People with good social skills don’t view socializing as a competition or a situation where they need to get approval. It’s just about creating a good vibe.

Anyway, the reason she does it is because consciously or unconsciously she is looking to see if you’re really as cool as she think you might be. Being cool = non-reactive, state control, lack of neediness, etc.

[d0ornokey]

@aurum I agree

If you're authentically confident and grounded, you'll pass shit-tests without trying to 

even if you don't pass them, fuck it 

that's just where you're at and give love to yourself

Edited December 13, 2018 by d0ornokey

[NoSelfSelf]

Tests test your strenght and what are you made of if you pass them then she will feel more comfortable to surrend to you to lead like shin said...