65 principles video question

[moon777light]

1.) the 34th one mentioned is "all identity is relative" while the 49th is "everything is relative"...how are these two different?

2.) the 11th... "quality of life/everything boils down to inner game" you mention all suffering is self-inflicted and we should perfect "the inner software of the mind because this is where we will unlock our potential in life"..., what are suggestions to help with this core principle,? are there any videos already on this topic?

[Consilience]

For 2) Definitely checkout Peter Ralston's work. He has been one of the most helpful resources I've found for understanding the self structure and emotions from an enlightenment perspective. 

As for 1), I think Leo is making the distinction between self identity being relative and then all intellectual perspectives being relative, which is distinct from self knowledge. That's a good question though. 

[Leo Gura]

1) It is especially important to emphasize that identity is relative because people generally believe identity is a physical fact. Like, a cat is a cat. No, a cat is a cat only TO YOU. The universe at large draws no such distinctions.

And very importantly that means that your identity as a human being is relative. It is not absolutely true.

Yes, if you truly understood that everything is relative you would also understand that identity is relative, but it helps to emphasize the point.

2) All Actualized.org videos are basically about dialing in your inner game.

[moon777light]

thank you guys!

Edited November 5, 2018 by moon777light

[Shin]

Inner game = Meditation/Shadow work/Knowledge and application on a specific issue or thing you want to acquire in life = confidence,

Or should I say understanding there are no things you can't do with enough intention and effort.