It frustrates me that I meet guys on dating sites who are interested in me but not in

[TheBeachBionic]

In public.

My attraction level is hideous

 

Please don't lie to me about the answers wheather I can get a boyfriend or not.

[Elysian]

If you do some inner work, there would definitely be guys interested in you. Not so for every guy trying to do the same.

[K VIL]

Well why can't you change that?

[Shin]

If you don't start to participate in the discussion of your topic, keep continuing to say the same thing everytime without getting deep in the explanation, and if you don't start doing the things we told you to do,

Everyone will stop to helps you, because obviously it would be useless to try to.

[Spiral]

@TheBeachBionic Typical fuckboy behaviour. You are picking the wrong guys.

[billiesimon]

Oh my goodness it's the fourth or fifth time I've seen this copypaste topic  I've had a similar self esteem issue when I was in high school, and then it dissolved once I started to see my looks as they truly are.

Send me a normal picture in pm, I'm SURE as hell you are normal.
Also stop catastrofizing this looks issue lol.

[Shin]

10 minutes ago, billiesimon said:

Oh my goodness it's the fourth or fifth time I've seen this copypaste topic  I've had a similar self esteem issue when I was in high school, and then it dissolved once I started to see my looks as they truly are.

Send me a normal picture in pm, I'm SURE as hell you are normal.
Also stop catastrofizing this looks issue lol.

She is quite normal, but it doesn't matter if her self esteem is that abysmal.

[TheBeachBionic]

11 hours ago, Spiral said:

@TheBeachBionic Typical fuckboy behaviour. You are picking the wrong guysI ne I never pick anyone.

[TheBeachBionic]

6 hours ago, billiesimon said:

Oh my goodness it's the fourth or fifth time I've seen this copypaste topic  I've had a similar self esteem issue when I was in high school, and then it dissolved once I started to see my looks as they truly are.

Send me a normal picture in pm, I'm SURE as hell you are normal.
Also stop catastrofizing this looks issue lol.

This is not about looks this about me not being able to get a boyfriend.

[8Ball]

7 hours ago, TheBeachBionic said:

This is not about looks this about me not being able to get a boyfriend.

Which you contribute to your looks am I right or am I right? Why mention your "hideous looks" in every topic? Please don't lie to me about the answer whether I am right or wrong. ?

[TheBeachBionic]

14 hours ago, billiesimon said:

Oh my goodness it's the fourth or fifth time I've seen this copypaste topic  I've had a similar self esteem issue when I was in high school, and then it dissolved once I started to see my looks as they truly are.

Send me a normal picture in pm, I'm SURE as hell you are normal.
Also stop catastrofizing this looks issue lol.

This is not about looks this about me not being able to get a boyfriend.

 

Are you calling me hideous because you say your "hideous looks".

[TheBeachBionic]

8 minutes ago, 8Ball said:

Which you contribute to your looks am I right or am I right? Why mention your "hideous looks" in every topic? Please don't lie to me about the answer whether I am right or wrong. ?

Are you calling me hideous because you say your "hideous looks".

[K VIL]

please dont send me photos. im not here to judge.

[Artaemis]

I sense rage and desperation in your posts. Do you have a meditation practice? I think you need to centre yourself in practice. 

[Shadowraix]

On 11/5/2018 at 3:18 AM, TheBeachBionic said:

Are you calling me hideous because you say your "hideous looks".

No. That is not what was being said.

The quotes were used to point to what you claim is hideous but not call you hideous because they are skeptical or downright don't believe that claim of hideousness.

[Shadowraix]

On 11/4/2018 at 4:02 AM, Shin said:

If you don't start to participate in the discussion of your topic, keep continuing to say the same thing everytime without getting deep in the explanation, and if you don't start doing the things we told you to do,

Everyone will stop to helps you, because obviously it would be useless to try to.

This.

Put in the effort or suffer.

Your choice.

If you want a boyfriend then the first thing you will need to work on is your pessimism. You'll find it difficult to find someone who is willing to deal with you wallowing in your own misery that you project as some absolute truth.

[TheBeachBionic]

On 11/6/2018 at 4:26 PM, K VIL said:

please dont send me photos. im not here to judge.

You probably just don't want to hurt my feelings.

[Shadowraix]

2 hours ago, TheBeachBionic said:

You probably just don't want to hurt my feelings.

Or it could be they don't want to give their opinions.

I have had girls ask me if I think they are pretty and when I refuse to answer they just assume I think they are ugly but the truth is I don't want them to use me as validation. I want them to find validation in their own existence.

Acknowledge your own gravitation to negativity. Its a bias you need to get rid of.

Edited November 8, 2018 by Shadowraix

[Aquarius]

I have the same issue sometimes, do you guys know the reason why this might happen? On okcupid I had around 1200 likes, yet in real life no one approaches me.  

[Shin]

20 minutes ago, Aquarius said:

I have the same issue sometimes, do you guys know the reason why this might happen? On okcupid I had around 1200 likes, yet in real life no one approaches me.  

Do you mean guys are interested online but don't want to meet in real life ? 

Or do you mean that no guys approach you in real life ?