Big list of studies that suggest that women hate high-consciousness behaviour in men

[Shin]

2 hours ago, ajasatya said:

yes. so people can see through the victim bullshit.

if you don't call them to wake up, they will look at those texts and think "omg i'm so fucked up. why am i so nice in such a cruel world? no women will want me this way"

it's pathetic. and straightforward realistic perceptions are highly curative.

and i'll say it again. look around. most people are ignorant.

when i was even more ignorant, a few years ago, i got into a fucked up relationship. one of those related in the texts. hell, i was miserable 

I feel the same, but you didn't use the word ignorant in the first place.

I'm saying that because people will look up to you in the future (if not already), so you gotta be careful on how you say things ?

 

@ajasatya 

 

Edited September 28, 2018 by Shin

[Emerald]

Integrate your inner feminine or else suffer forever with these insecurities.

[F A B]

1 hour ago, Mikael89 said:

Me for example, I have accepted that I will never get a girlfriend in my life. So I'm moving on (to death), looking forward to it.

Ok, then, why are you even watching this section of the forum? 

[ajasatya]

1 hour ago, Shin said:

I'm saying that because people will look up to you in the future (if not already), so you gotta be careful on how you say things

you're completely right on this one. responsibility is necessary. thank you 

[F A B]

2 hours ago, Mikael89 said:

So I can post this kind of posts, obviously.

Please. This behaviour is not useful for  anybody, both for you and for other members.

[Shadowraix]

May be true for a certain demographic of women.

Just find one that isn't that way.

[XYZ]

It could be that higher consciousness people are less polarized into masculine and feminine behavior, becoming more a balance of both energies. In my own experience and many other accounts, this process of depolarization comes part and parcel with a sense of internal validation, developing deep inner peace, and especially learning to be non-reactive, since most expressions of masculinity and femininity are reactions to your environment. There is a sense of being whole and complete, no longer feeling needy for intimate companionship when you fully cultivate both your masculine and feminine.

Men will always find women attractive, since for the straight male attractiveness is primarily physical, or at least it begins as being turned on by a female body, scent, sound of voice, fertility, neoteny etc. For straight women on the other hand, attraction tends to me more intangible, what initially attracts them to a man is not so much his body as his displays of masculine energy. So a man who is grounded, non-attached, un-reactive won't be very attractive in comparison to other more typical normal men. I'd even go as far to say that male self-actualization may even be at odds with being attractive to women. Always exceptions though, but even high conscious women are often drawn to brutish alpha-male-primitive machismo, and want someone who will lead and dominate over her and other men.

[Hellspeed]

Why should we care as men?  

It is time for us to choose, not beg for "she loves me, she loves me not" hahahahaha, hilarious in the majority of women this behavior, even pathetic, pouting princesses. 

[Dorotheus]

Hahahaha, this thread.

Stop Reading news articles and go approach some wonen, then see what they like.

[Arkandeus]

Guys, you realize we have also have women in this forum?

So can we stop demonizing women?it is not very respectful

Yes, some women suffer from ego issues, as much as men do, they have just as we incarnated in this world and plane called earth to make the best of it, they are our accomplices

What do men with ego do? They bully, murder, go to war, oppress, enslave (have you seen many female bouncers and security guards?)

What do women with ego do? Yes they might go for the bad guys, they might look down on you and act like bitches or try to rob you with child support or somehow rip your soul out in mysterious ways

It is well said that men the to hurt and kill physically while women hurt and kill emotionally

Who cares in the end, those of us that succomb to ego suck balls and make this a hard place for everyone, but there are good men and women, and it is up to them to lead by example

If you've had the lucky opportunity to have a loving mother you know how strong women can be, how loving they can be, how good they can be

Even tho it seems they keep those good qualities for their families and for a select amount of people, these qualities are there

But you will not be ready to see strength in women unless you see strength in yourself

Especially if you put women above yourself, I have done so in the past, I wished for way more intimate relationships with women , I felt completely unsatisfied, and saw them as higher then me, I know what some of us feel here, I have not had more intimate relationships, my wishes didnt come true but I did stop to believe that there's something in a women which I lack

Two people do not come together to fulfill each other, they come together to expand

Now I can see woman as they are, soul mates on this adventure, accomplices, its a matter of building a world together, a civilization, men help women, women help men, women help women, men and women help men and so fort

We are building reality as it is,it only takes one world-scale enlightenment for everything to change, forever

 

 

 

Edited October 4, 2018 by Arkandeus