Big list of studies that suggest that women hate high-consciousness behaviour in men

[MM1988]

http://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-men-nice-women-not-other-way-around-261269

http://archive.is/ZGvcF

https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs40806-017-0126-4

http://www.wdish.com/life/bullies-sex-study

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0126-4

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3177486/Child-bullies-sexier-popular-dates-victims-grow-new-research-suggests.html

https://www.timesofisrael.com/women-really-dont-go-for-nice-guys-study-indicates/

http://archive.is/e6p19

https://scottbarrykaufman.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/The-Dark-Triad-Personality.pdf

https://www.elitedaily.com/women/women-are-attracted-to-narcissistic-men/992989

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/26098378

https://www.bizpacreview.com/2018/03/31/gamma-male-syndrome-why-even-liberal-women-arent-attracted-to-liberal-men-619081

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evolution-the-self/201204/why-do-women-fall-serial-killers

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007%2Fs12147-015-9142-5

 

Thoughts?

 

[Spiral]

Women are attracted to people who are authentic, these examples are authentic behaviours although often not the most friendliest. 

It’s not about being nice or being mean it’s about being authentic or not. People who are nice are usually not authentic and so girls aren’t attracted to them. They are nice to get something in a desperate way not in a genuine way.

Although some girl have a thing for serial killers 

[SFRL]

Authentic is quickly becomes this word like maturity, or arrogant. People love to throw those out there but when you would ask people what do you mean by that you can't get a good straight answer out of them. 

Authenticity to me has always meant that you do what you want without giving a fuck what anyone else thinks. 

I don't think the word authentic has the same meaning to me as it has to many others. 

[SFRL]

On topic: It makes a big difference if you are being nice from a position of strength or weakness. 

If you are being nice as your spearhead tactic to endear you to women, thats not a good tactic. 

 

[Shin]

2 minutes ago, SFRL said:

On topic: It makes a big difference if you are being nice from a position of strength or weakness. 

If you are being nice as your spearhead tactic to endear you to women, thats not a good tactic. 

 

But we're not talking about being nice are we ?

The thread is about «most girls don't like high-conscious guys».

 

[SFRL]

18 minutes ago, Shin said:

But we're not talking about being nice are we ?

The thread is about «most girls don't like high-conscious guys».

 

Yeah well goes on in the same direction. 

It's the old saying: Girls don't want a nice guy, they want a bad-boy. 

Within the spiritual community they just replaced the words: Girls don't want an unconsious guy, they want an unconsious guy. 

It's the same thing.

It's worse actually because it's a step removed from the core problem by no longer calling a spade a spade. 

Edited September 28, 2018 by SFRL

[Shin]

10 minutes ago, SFRL said:

Yeah well goes on n the same direction. 

It's the old saying: Girls don't want a nice guy, they want a bad-boy. 

Within the spiritual community they just replaced the words: Girls don't want an unconsious guy, they want an unconsious guy. 

It's the same thing.

It's worse actually because it's a step removed from the core problem by no longer calling a spade a spade. 

I didn't look at the studies, the op worded his thread poorly, my bad.

In my experience women are highly attracted to highly conscious men, those men aren't nice nor assholish, just 100% themself.

Nice guy by definition can't be highly conscious since they put women on a pedestal anyway.

 

[MM1988]

It seems like behaviour like meditation and searching for truth is contraproductive to finding a partner as a male. If you do one you cant have the other.

This is why many christians until today practice abstinence, it stems from a core truth that jesus realized in his direct experience. You will have to give up on romance to pursue enlightenment.

Edited September 28, 2018 by MM1988

[SFRL]

13 minutes ago, Shin said:

I didn't look at the studies, the op worded his thread poorly, my bad.

In my experience women are highly attracted to highly conscious men, those men aren't nice nor assholish, just 100% themself.

Nice guy by definition can't be highly conscious since they put women on a pedestal anyway.

 

Yeah if you want to slice the cake that way sure. 

[SFRL]

10 minutes ago, MM1988 said:

It seems like behaviour like meditation and searching for truth is contraproductive to finding a partner as a male. If you do one you cant have the other.

This is why many christians until today practice abstinence, it stems from a core truth that jesus realized in his direct experience. You will have to give up on romance to pursue enlightenment.

There are old scriptures that freely translated pretty much state that Jesus was banging some very dirty girls. 

But that version didn't make the Bible...

[ajasatya]

most men are stupid. most women are stupid. they go well together. let them be.

[Shin]

6 minutes ago, ajasatya said:

most men are stupid. most women are stupid. they go well together. let them be.

Does that come from a place of love ? ?

[outlandish]

@ajasatya ^ lol so true

[MM1988]

@Mikael89 get in here dude this is a thread for you

[F A B]

@MM1988

What's the aim of that list?

Is it to justify why you are not succeeding with girls? 

I hope not!

[MM1988]

@F A B hit the nail on the head 

[F A B]

4 minutes ago, MM1988 said:

@F A B hit the nail on the head 

Forget about that stuff. It definitely doesn't help you to move on.

[tashawoodfall]

lol this is entertaining 

[Artaemis]

@Mikael89 Thats not a better feeling thought >:c

[ajasatya]

1 hour ago, Shin said:

Does that come from a place of love ? ?

yes. so people can see through the victim bullshit.

if you don't call them to wake up, they will look at those texts and think "omg i'm so fucked up. why am i so nice in such a cruel world? no women will want me this way"

it's pathetic. and straightforward realistic perceptions are highly curative.

and i'll say it again. look around. most people are ignorant.

when i was even more ignorant, a few years ago, i got into a fucked up relationship. one of those related in the texts. hell, i was miserable