Meaningful conversation?

[Manjushri]

I was thinking - how do you actually have meaningful conversation... I naturally have good social skills and have a personal conversation style which pretty quickly leads me to deep topics and connection. Despite that, I still feel I don't connect fully. What's the point of conversation even? To make free associations? To share experience? About the second one, there's this thing called circling - where you look at the other person in the eyes and say what you feel. I've done it a few times and its really powerful, makes for meaningful conversation. I want to learn how to lead conversations that... idk what. are meaningful? 

[NoSelfSelf]

It can only happen when 2 people want to have meaningful conv in my experience its usually shallow surface level stuff when you go deeper you get labeled a philosopher