recognise yourself in everyone and everything

[Crazy_Monkey_Brain]

Stop separating the “I” from others, see yourself in all evil, see how you relate to evil. 

Stop asking the universe for things,

ask the universe what can I do for you?

[Shadowraix]

"Stop asking the universe for things,"

Why? Asking the universe for things is a very useful tool in receiving answers. Or rather asking questions to the universe as you are essentially asking yourself.