Sexual Meditation/ Trigger Practice

[Falk]

This i for everybody who explores his or her sexual energy right now and is learning the balance between controlling and endulging sexuality.

I did: No porn in 3 month / challenge of not fapping/very rare fapping for 6weeks.

Now i read about trigger practices: which basicly means to expose yourself to a trigger signal (porn/pictures or thinking about naked girls etc) and watching yourself while doing so without!!! engaging in any sexual practice (keep those hands out of your trouser!  )

It is basicly a sexual meditation, i found it very interessting, i could learn a LOT!! about my self and how i tick, things i never realy could see, since while in "sex-mode" everything is usualy rather blury/wild and "unconscious". 

 your thoughts on that topic?

[Sarah Marie]

@Falk I'd so much rather just have an orgasim LOL. 

[Falk]

6 minutes ago, Sarah_Flagg said:

@Falk I'd so much rather just have an orgasim LOL. 

Yeah i get that  but my experience is : my post-practice-orgasms count for 10 pre-practice-orgasms ... this is some next level shit

 

It is like a river flowing out imediatly VS ...saving the water up to contain a whole ocean, controll that ocean and then when you can´t take it anymore you releaze a complete ocean ... if you know what i mean

 

Edited March 25, 2016 by Falk

[Sarah Marie]

@Falk Just realized you're male so that might make a difference. I think it's awesome you have that type of self control, I just feel like a total bitch if I never orgasim. 

[Ajax]

If I was to use such a thing, I would only do it for a specific goal. Self denial for the sake of seeking wisdom is kind of like asceticism. Like buddha said, the middle way is the best. Muhammad Ali reportedly refrained from women while preparing for a bout, to aid willpower no doubt.

For it being used as a tool for enlightenment/insight... I don't believe it at all.

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