Is it okay to not to be able to play the field?

[Aakash Vijayan]

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[Spiral]

Be more specific.

[Aakash Vijayan]

Is it considered less masculine? I have a girlfriend currently and ive had only sex with one woman till now and im 25. I feel like maybe im missing out. Also i have insecurities about masculinity and feel like im a manchild. 

I have a lot more familial responsibilities now and i want to not focus on the "playing the field" matter anymore. Also i feel like 30s are too late to play the field. 

Edited August 23, 2018 by Aakash Vijayan

[Spiral]

@Aakash Vijayan it’s a gamble say you would break up and then isn’t able to attract girls effectively. Partly because of your insecurities, then what?

Being worried about not being masculine is not masculine ironically. Not being able to attract girls effectively is not something I consider a requirement to be a masculine men.

It’s very tricky, I found that girls who face a similar dilemma often end up cheating. You can most definitely “play the field” in your 30s though.

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