Cutting friends

[kamill]

Hi 

 

iam 20 years old collage student and all of my friends at collage are into drinking partying and stuff like that and I tired of this life style and I want to end it for good. But the thing is every my friend is like that and if I cut them all I think I would have no one to talk to and I would feel lonely but I still thing It might be the best choice. What do you think about that ?

[Hello from Russia]

Yeah, just set boundaries and don't judge them, accept them as they are (very important). You don't need to neccessarly cut everyone, just limit the destructive aspects of your friendship (drinking, partying or whatever else you find destructive) and if they try to force you into all that or all your interactions are somewhat destructive - then cut.

Edited August 18, 2018 by Hello from Russia

[Spiral]

Make new friends first, “using” your old friends.