Ingit

IM really sick of persons like this

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I  need not  to mention who it is here... But that person always makes me angry up to that limit That I want to beat him up badly and Scream at him... He will always say things to me and don’t even Know what he is saying... I told him not to say in front of me because that disturba me and my Mental health... but he don’t understands... and last time I had a fight and I was damn Angry... Why don’t he understand me and continues to yell at me even though I’m not guilty..and sometimes I found his talks disturbing and want to move away from him but I keep listening and Think that what the fuck he is saying.. dont he understand that he needs to think before he speaks in front of him.


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if he doesn't even know what he saying, then why do you get angry? 

Have you tried having compassion for someone who doesn't know what he is saying? 

Have you tried walking away? taking a walk outside?

Notice how the anger doesn't actually help you, it just hurts you. and If it is not changing the other person than you are hurting yourself and wasting your energy, you need another approach.

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4 hours ago, Outer said:

It's better to look outward.

Yes and do that. Meet them in their delusion. Go there with them. See what happens. Feel the love flow in honest interaction? Feel the knots unwind. Ahhhh keep doing that and things will soften...

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6 hours ago, Outer said:

It's better to look outward.

@Outer @SgtPepper These two are actually the same.


Bearing with the conditioned in gentleness, fording the river with resolution, not neglecting what is distant, not regarding one's companions; thus one may manage to walk in the middle. H11L2

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