Overcompensation In Dating

[mrli]

Hi, 

I would like to hear your opinion on overcompensation in Dating. How do you find a healthy balance in dating and communication. Because if the goal is to create an awesome relationship how do you go out and filter without being an ass. How do you handle the fears and skills in this area and on the other hand not overcompensate for past pains and failures. 

thanks 

[ALGUIMAR]

I don't think I have understood your question... What do you mean exactly by overcompensation in dating? Anyways I will share some ideas. Relationships like any human endevour are something natural and spontaneous, you just have to make sure you are true to yourself, don't try to be another person or do stuff you don't want to do in order to have a better relationships. It doesn't work that way