Priti Health Journal

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Chapter 316 

New chapter - Mythological Framework 

1. Six phases and minor phases 

2. 3 cosmic characters 

3. Swan and the wolf 

4. Two types of love - soft love and Devils love as Bdsm 

5. Hell of chaos run by Satan. Eternal restlessness. Eternal restlessness and absence of eternity for the one governed by Satan 

6.  4 demigods for the devil - the vulture, the snake, the wolf and the grim reaper. These are all masculine. Demigods and symbols for God, - Swan, dragon, pets, stuffed toys, trapezium mountain, rings, mother goddess, eternity dish, christ, chalice, a pillar and obelisks, shabti dolls, trees, 

7. Satan represented by a gateway to hell like a place of total darkness and bad vibe. 

8. Union with God in eternity and reincarnation. Final closure 

9 afterlife. The field of reeds, the fulfillment of unfulfilled spiritual desires, the experience of paradise and an ideal life. 

10 Swan practice 

11. Concept of heath 

12. Twin flame guardian 

13. Imaginary friends and lovers, and spirit animals or demi gods. 

14. Art, romance and fantasy 

15. Concept of core body and specific layers. 

16   importance of Mastery 

17.   concept of categories 

18 Blend of spirituality and materialism and myth 

19  Energies of Life 

20  power of Conscience 

21 energy of love 

22 change of state 

23 training the brain - part of Mastery 

24 chain of support.. Imaginary 

25 unshakable faith 

26 moment to moment awareness and creativity 

27  enrichment and yield. 

28 internal state and internal fulfillment 

29 Swan manual, tarot cards, the spirit exercise(water exercise), contemplation exercises, parts of mind exercises, review contemplation, brail exercise. Cup exercise. 

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We have 2 frameworks. One is conceptual framework and the other is Mythological Framework.. 

 

 

A short description of a concept discussed  earlier. 

Primary truth - the reality. Fact 

 

Example - poor people get treated bad. Not so good looking people are ignored. You have to cooperate with the politicians or you cannot have freedom of speech or else you will be in jail. These truths are based on social fabric or social dynamics 

Secondary truth - you need food to survive. Or you need good sleep to function properly. Drugs are mad. These are things that you cant deny and are not dependent on social order or structure or fabric. It's a fundamental truth or applicable truth. It's directly applied. 

Example - 

Higher truth - its the universal truth, the idealistic truth, the truth of nature, the real truth. It's applicable in all circumstances. It goes beyond the limitations of either society or physical body. It's like an eternal truth that will continue to exist or survive even after death. It is always true no matter what.its like a cosmic truth 

Example - love heals the heart and truth wins or courage is powerful. Evil will not succeed. It looks like it's getting contradicted in reality. 

Space
Blend of spirituality and materialism
True soulmate
Energies of Life
Sleep issues
Power of Conscience
Aggressors
Emotional aggression
Investment of emotions
Basic reality
Energy of love
Dehumanization and character assassination
Quality of the day
Change of State... Journaling.
Poverty and insensitivity
Family Control, Confidence and Independence 
Openness
Training the Brain
Profiling how to profile people 
Destressing
Single Life and Happiness
Time for healing
Zero Expectations life

Important concepts
 ? Space
? Zero Expectations
❤️ chain of support 
❤️ Healing 
?Moment to moment awareness and creativity 
❤️ Universal love 
? You are the hero 
?Prayers
?Creativity and personal growth
?Use of science in daily life 
?Unshakable faith 

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This diary will be divided into 3 segments 

A.. Conceptual Framework 

 

B.. Spiritual framework 

 

C.. Mythological Framework 

 

Chapters will contain the letters to note the segment it belongs to. 

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3 step model 

Definition 

Process or "how" layout 

Outcome 

So this can be rephrased as follows 

Definition /framework of principles 

Layout or "how to do" 

Outcome 

 

Almost all of human civilization is based on this basic structure or model of framework, layout and outcome. The first comes the religious beliefs and then a layout of rituals and lastly the outcome of such processes. 

 

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7 step model 

1 Pre - primordial - only intangible eternal elements exist and take shape for birth in physical form. 

Manifestation happens. The thunder starts and begins the primordial. 

1 Primordial  is the first strong form of an individual mentally and physically which is well nourished and enriched and ready to take wings. This is the initial Kickstart. 

2 Secondary is the stage where the form is ready to make reasonable progress and gaining a foothold in the direction of the path. 

3 Refining /Revising is the latest and adding layers in little details one at a time 

 

4. Decaying.. Means this progress is gradually slowing down and decaying and aging. 

 

5. Withered it's over. None stays. Complete Cessation of the tangible elements. Intangible elements survive through eternity. 

 

6 Eternal - the energy and the spirit stays eternal. The spirit carries a vestige of feeling and thought/principle/idea/desire/ wish/dislike 

What's the meaning of these phases. It means an idea takes root and eventually turns into reality and reality dies out but the idea remains eternal and survives forever. It also means there is always a genesis and a first foundational stage to anything in life, including yourself which then further enhances and becomes functional with time or degrades eventually. This applies to any plan or idea or vision or goal and even to the body or state of mind. But with the intangibles it's much more advantageous because whatever that begins never ceases in existence. So a strong state of mind would not suddenly disintegrate but with careful effort continue to improve and get better and even reach a peak point of near perfection. This is also a huge benefit because it won't decay like matter or physical things. It does take time to have that mental emotional Mastery but it's worth the effort because it's more or less forever or semi permanent at least. 

 

 

Energy could be happy or unhappy intense or light. Thus it's only quantitative or symbolic or only "attribute"... 

The qualitative aspect of energy is the spirit which is a combined entity of thought/consciousness /invocation and emotion or feeling. 

It's a state of both consciousness and emotion and its aura is energy. The consciousness is a principle whereas the emotion is the intent or accompanying instinct. Consciousness is more thought based mutable whereas emotion is the reptilian part which is stable immutable and primitive form of expression a sentiment. Consciousness when applied to emotion can refine it or reject it or make it more understandable. It either intensifies or pacifies emotion. 

Consciousness can provide logic and order but without emotion can lack in innate understanding. It's like giving drugs to a depression patient without resolving the fundamental issue that is the root cause of his suffering. Emotion without logic can be uncontrolled unbalanced and disproportionate whereas logic without emotion can be misplaced and dissonant or lacking resonance or rhythm. Therfore both together is the spiritual duality or spiritual duet 

 

This is the spirit. The embodiment of mind and emotion. Of Judgement and intuition. This unique combination together can be called spirit consciousness 

Spirit is the identity of the soul. 

Power of the positive spirit 

Framework 1 - conceptual 

Guidelines or layout 

Outcome 

 

 

Framework 2 - spiritual 

Layout 

Outcome

 

 

 

Framework 3 - Mythological 

Layout 

Outcome 

 

 

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Two planes. Physical and spiritual. 

Spiritual is the privilege or the basic requirement and the physical is a bonus. 

Without the physical, the spiritual is a humble consolation and a support to thrive on. Without the spiritual the physical is just a show a fake an illusion and a gratification tool without real sentiment 

Together its a blessing. 

Examples for illustration 

Dying wife and the cook as a replacement 

Dead child or family member and a new nember or child 

Replacement of pets. 

Atm card dad. 

Good doctors in town but not in the local hospital. 

So spiritual is a cake whereas physical is an icing on the cake. 

People who care too much for the physical but disrespect the spiritual are fake cheap shallow selfish 

People who understand the physical but respect the spiritual but know the limitations of both physical and spiritual are reasonable 

People who idolize the spiritual but neglect the physical are a little impractical and less functional or usable 

Both should unite. Anything lacking in spiritual is meaningless  and hollow and anything that is merely spiritual or intangible is only a sentiment and has meaning but not usable. Thus the primordial has to begin with spiritual and it's success lies in the manifestation in physical. 

Now the biggest secret is to know how to manifest the spiritual into the physical. 

This is the divine secret. 

You can also call it the divine secret of the ages. 

The secret is this. 

When you connect to the divine consciousness or divinity the power of the divine forces from the cosmic characters is absorbed and used to manifest the vision. However this vision has to be true and sublime or pure to appease the spirits of eternity, the (as in ancient  Egyptian culture its called ma'at which means the governor of all good. This is the key. There is a cosmic force stronger than any force that eventually wants good to sustain and bring a balance and harmony. Your instinct should tap and resonate with this cosmic force. It's like pushing the right buttons but for that you need intelligence which once again arises out of good so everything is interconnected. That's why evil can't succeed because it can only have an instinct but get interfered in its plans and get thwarted due to the lack of mechanics or lack of intelligence and non congruence with the intelligent design. What does this mean. That everything is connected and a pattern. You can call it the cosmic pattern. It's a sequence governed by laws which support balance and harmony anything that pushes this off balance also suffers as a result so not only does the object of attention suffer but so also the source that causes this suffering. So if a flood is brought, the flood does not distinguish between good and evil and takes away both with it. Thus the evil can't escape its own doings and ends up getting the taste of its own medicine. Because the universe is designed that way. The natural course is designed that way. The way things exist in the universe and operate can be called the natural course. The laws that govern this course are the universal laws. The instinct that drives this forward is the divine instinct or ma'at which means "everything for the good" which drives the processes of natural course further. Here the divine instinct is the ma'at. The laws are derived from this and so all the laws are designed to make the good prevail and the destructive perish, the laws are designed for progress and the outcome of such a progress is sweet and harmony and balance. This law has been coded into each and every creation in this universe. Therefore what follows the law survives, what doesn't perishes. Every process in the natural course is owned by this law or laws. It resonates and chimes with the laws. It follows the law and when it does so it continues to flourish and sustain in harmony throughout eternity. Whatever that disrupts this harmony brings eventual chaos and if it doesn't follow the sequence of the processes in the natural course or goes against it, it then gets eventually degraded and destroyed. Whatever that fails to understand the sequence and doesn't follow the sequence or doesn't resonate with either the sequence or the laws governing it or goes against it will cause disruption of harmony and cause balance and bring out the bad. If it not destruction it will at least lead to mediocrity and lack of substance and hollowness. It will be vague and almost useless and or dysfunctional and shallow or messy. There will be no real beauty in it just an empty white noise. Without substance, meaning, beauty. Because these qualities belong to the ma'at, so without the ma'at, such qualities cannot exist and so without these qualities, the condition of the resultant state will be shallow and for fake glory or display. This is like buying a huge building fashioned like a Rolex watch fully made of cheap plastic and then auctioning it off as a treasure piece. That's how much sense anything makes when it lacks substance. It's not made out of meaning, beauty and substance. Now whatever that follows the sequence and is in resonance with the laws and the divine instinct of ma'at is bound to succeed and grow and prosper but the prosperity is not overnight. It will come gradually after an eternity of toiling but what it will create will be the most amazing splendid indestructible and glorious by itself without any validation or hype. It will stand by itself as an aura of beauty and substance. It will have a mysterious mythical grandeur and allure to it which becomes a part of it spiritual quality. Although it may be non living, it will still a carry a sentiment of good and beauty. It won't be perfect but at least near perfect. This can be said of both the living and non the living. 

All of this means that a wrongful/malicious instinct can only win a short race since in the long run it falls out of resonance with the harmonious sequence of the natural course and thus the instinct wins a short distance and eventually fails in the eternal scheme of things. But the right instinct always wins. 

Because the instinct is in direct harmony or resonance with ma'at and so it obeys and understands and follows the sequence/sequences of the natural course and goes with it and then matures into a beautiful state of harmony and continues its legacy and survives and flourishes both physically and eternally (that is spiritually). 

So here there are many components to the divine secret. One can say three are a few caveats. 

These components are 

The natural course 

The sequence/sequences in this natural course 

Ma'at or the instinct of goodness 

Harmony and balance and flourishing as the outcome (field of reeds or eternal garden) 

Universal laws derived from divine instinct/ma'at that govern the natural course 

Resonance with the instinct and the sequence. This can be called consonance. 

Lack of resonance. - this can be called discordance. 

 

Good instinct or noble instinct 

Bad instinct or bad intent or malicious instinct 

Good instinct wins because of consonance. Bad instinct wins only in the short run but eventually causes destruction of others and itself because of discordance. 

So here is the divine secret and the caveats 

The divine secret explained in 5 steps 

1 Connection 

Connection to the divine forces or cosmic forces. This is invocation. Or the primordial birth of an instinct. 

2  a good instinct as a requirement or caveat/condition. (A bad instinct will also find its way but will create problems eventually) there is freedom of will so even a bad intent is allowed its way in the universe. However there is no freedom of outcome. So outcome is decided by the natural course. 

This is more or less like a caveat 

3 preservation of this instinct and its constant invocation 

This is the law of attraction. Having persistence 

4.Harnessing. Following it. Resonance with not only the divine instinct(ma'at) but also the sequence of the natural course. Follow this sequence. Follow this wisdom. Follow this path 

This means just having a good instinct or intent is not enough. It has to follow a certain set of laws and actions that allow the manifestation of the good instinct. Like just wanting to help the diseased is not enough..harnessing  means acquiring the knowledge of medicine to work on the disease and find a cure. 

5. Manifestation and continuation 

Through constant harnessing and invocations and a determined pursuit, you display the qualities of hope and faith which are rewarded and the manifestation of your will in the physical world eventually happens. But you have to continue and not give up. You have to preserve the condition of this manifested state with all your effort and constant invocation and save it from degradation. It's a treasure now that needs to be cherished and preserved much like the pyramids and much like the tradition of ma'at. All the philosophies and principles need to be preserved not just in books but also in real life to keep the river of harmony the Nile river flowing and not let it dry up due to any change or modernity. In order to have harmony and in order to keep the yield going it's healthy or wholesome harmonious productive  yielding state has to be maintained. It has to be maintained the exact way it always was by protecting it from unnecessary changes that can cause its degradation over time. Which means all the principles of resonance will always be in motion throughout time no matter how modern the age is. The same principles will hold true and continue 

And the ritual of invocation and gratitude has to continue. 

 

 

(This is not to confuse with natural degardation with age which is bound to happen since the physical is not eternal and has to die at some point. This is not "brought on" destruction. This is natural destruction or "withering" which is a part of the primordial cycle. It's not caused by forces of evil and chaos.) 

 

 

When you have a spiritual birth or a primordial birth which means growth of an instinct 

Law of transformation and accommodation 

 

This law means 

"anything that is bad and in a mangled or unusable state or considered bad can still be rejuvenated as long as it has a life force and vitality." 

And "everything that is good needs to be encouraged and accommodated into a system. A system that doesn't accommodate is unworthy or undeserving of such good." 

So there are 2 things here. One is framework and layouts and the other is a list of manifestations and hope faith devotion on the divine secret and its manifestation 

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Take comfort in something 

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Concept of lack of happiness with oneself and mental momentum 

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1 Fulfillment. Opposite dissatisfaction 

2 Enrichment opposite deprivation 

3 Expression opposite  stifling 

4 Momentum opposite inertia of idleness and restlessness 

5 Jouissance and felicity and vigor opposite enervation and languor also 

6 Vigor opposite vexation and agitation build up. Discouragement. Leading to inertia 

 

Six states of mind as a part of inner fulfillment. 

Early morning feelings 

Part of spiritual and conceptual framework 

 

 

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Concept of lack of happiness with oneself and mental momentum 

 

 

I have understood one thing through all of my insights 

 

And that thing is 

I should focus on 6 six different states like fulfillment Enrichment expression momentum Jouissance vigor 

 

And the next thing is the concept of 

There are 4  essential elements 

One is science 

One is intention or spiritual /moral/primordial 

One is emotion or spirit or mental 

One is mastery 

 

How to put these elements in motion 

 

That is you could use leadership in many ways. 

You can be an emotional leader who leads by inspiring 

You can be a leader with good intentions, that is whatever you do always has a good intention behind it even though you aren't very emotionally submerged in it 

You can use logic and science to determine cause and effect and still have good intentions but think less emotionally 

You can use Mastery to use brute force and skills and business acumen and strategies and use your art to work out solutions. 

 All these elements blend together 

 

Science, intention, emotion and Mastery 

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These are the primordial elements 

4 

? Science 

? Intention 

? Mastery 

? Emotion 

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Implementation begins from today. 

Today is July 6th 

Need to start counting implementation days. 

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Focus 

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Twin flame partner 

I can probably get along with someone else 

 

A person who is very judgemental, critical and skeptical about me is probably not good for me 

 

Qualities to avoid 

Chaotic

Lack of listening. 

Critical 

Judgemental 

Skeptical 

Harsh 

Un affectionate 

Taking for granted 

Not creating a spade of comfort and hope. 

A person who truly loves you will still try to create a space of hope and comfort despite realizing that things are unrealistic. That's called having a big heart. Because when you get what you want and when you get good things anyone can be happy. But a real person who understands limitations, who forgives truly, who opens his heart much bigger and is happy despite not getting what he wants. 

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A lot of concepts in short 

 

 

Primordial means an idea a thought a vibe, a word, an intention an affection, an awareness, a feeling an emotion a sentiment 

 

Physical means the physical manifestation or existence 

 

Law of Synchronicity when you have idea it's eternal and it finds its way to turn into reality either while you are alive or after death because the universe conspires to bring it into existence after hearing the words you put out into it.  No word is unheard or forsaken 

Words are very valuable. They can always be taken for granted and or considered fake by some people who get pissed by words with no backing action but still words with a genuine affection or intention behind can have a dramatic motivating effect. 

Words are always the first stage. The second stage is action. 

So someone's sweetness should not be dismissed unless it's really really fake. 

Words are also equally important 

Notice that it's only the intangible things that come for free. 

 

Beauty can be inner or outer. When you love someone for their inner beauty, they not only look beautiful from inside but also start looking beautiful in your eyes from outside. Vice versa 

The genuine intent of a person is more important than any person who does things for you out of expectations. Because they don't love you unconditionally. Don't just look at the actions also look at the intent 

 

 

 

Family is an illusion that needs to be broken 

 

 

Words will always have deep impact once there is a genuine intent behind them. 

Nothing surpasses spiritual beauty 

Empathy turns even the bad into good. 

 

The world is shallow. It values outer beauty and attributes over spiritual beauty 

 

The feeling that someone cares for you is the best feeling in the world and is enough to motivate you 

Community has a greater role than family which often gets ignored or not fulfilled because of creation of families. Communal love is more important than family love 

Limitations can exist in 3 ways 

1 Actual limitations or realities 

2 Human nature flaws 

3 Cunningness 

 

1Actual limitations or realities 

 

You could be someone's best friend and still not be able to help them. Because you are actually completely incapable of helping them 

 

 

2  Human nature flaws 

You could be someone's best friend and still not be able to help them. Because you have been perverted or interrupted or corrupted by your own human nature flaws example selfishness. You are trying and wanting to help but then you get second thoughts. 

3  Cunningness

You could be someone's best friend and still not be able to help them. Because you just don't want to do even the slightest thing that you are perfectly capable of doing. You just want to take advantage and throw that person out when your job is done. It's not a flaw preventing you. You already know that you are going to use that person and that you never help anyone no matter how much ever easier it is to help that person. It's really you being cunning. 

 

4 a person who actually helps you but with some other agenda in mind. He is also equally cunning 

The law of synchronicity and justice is like karma. 

 

Karma is not only the outcome of your actions for which you will have to pay back. Like what goes around comes around or as you sow shall you reap. You reap as you sow 

But karma is also a combination of two laws 

Karma = law of synchronicity + law of reparations 

Which means this. Good intentions always find a way to come to fruition. Bad intentions always find a way to get aborted and for poetic justice to happen 

Law of synchronicity means the good you think will come true one day and find its way into physical manifestation 

Law of reparations means the bad you think or do will find a way back to you for reparations and you will get your karma and you'll have to pay back in the form of punishment 

Even rejects deserve love. In fact they deserve more love than others because they need hope and encouragement 

And then there are people who struggle and who have problems to deal with and nobody cares about them because nobody finds beauty in them. They are called losers and rejects.

But it's not their fault. They deserve love too. They are the "abandoned ones" the forgotten ones. The ones rejected and canceled by the world looking for perfection.
But in the end.... God never forsakes even the rejects. Because true love and empathy never forsakes anyone, not even sinners.
That's the nature of the cross, of God. That's godliness. 

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Key rating systems for people 

 

1 civil 

A person can be civil not a sociopath but still be narcissistic, jealous, selfish, unkind, indifferent, unempathetic, 

On the other hand a person may not be a narcissist yet he could be uncivil unethical and breaking rules thus being a sociopath 

 

2. Goodness of character 

A person can be civil yet full of character flaws like hate, jealousy, creates drama and tries to hurt and bring chaos. Or he is shallow 

A person can be less civil or not very adherent to rules but still great in character like kindness, empathy, helping, supportive and big Hearted. 

 

3 Genuineness 

A person can be very civil but totally fake in their politeness. Genuineness is important whether you are good or bad. 

If a person has character flaws and is very uncivil but is open and genuine about his actions only makes him an honest person but not necessarily a good person 

 

The first ground for having trust is civil behavior. 

 

Sociopathy is an inevitable part of every society or culture. But it's only strong law and ethics that keeps it under control. It's like good pest control. 

There is no society immune to Sociopathy. It's only that they have good control 

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Primordial - - - - - - - > law of synchronicity or Mastery  - - - - - - - - - > physical manifestation 

Even through Mastery intention is important otherwise its fake or misplaced actions and intentions. 

Now Mastery can be of 2 types 

The unadulterated original spiritually motivated master who can be called the glorious master or original master. This Mastery is called glorious Mastery 

The other is fully functional and perfect the role and imitate the original master wonderfully and seems like a good substitute but is hugely lacking in character, depth, originality, emotion, substance or content, genuine intention and sentiment or intangible essence or quality. It can be a good fake. That's all it will be. It is only good for the job for completing the job, you needed a singer to sing like the original singer, the tone, voice, notes are perfect so a great replacement however the emotion are largely missing. But it can do the job. Since it can achieve what is needed although without true or genuine intention it can be called consummate Mastery 

 

So we have consummate Mastery and glorious Mastery 

 

Primordial - - - - >law of synchronicity - - - - >physical manifestation-----> Final Fulfillment 

 

Mastery (consummate) -  - - - - - - - - >physical manifestation....more fake and the outcome is not fully fulfilled. - - - - - >no final fulfillment 

Mastery( glorious) - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - >physical manifestation - - - - - - - > it's real therefore the outcome is fully fulfilled - - - - - > Final Fulfillment 

 

The focus should be on the following 

1...primordial 

2.. Glorious Mastery 

3...physical manifestation 

4... Final fulfillment 

 

Consummate Mastery is just physical without the spiritual element. 

 

Glorious Mastery is divine. Because it has the intention. It is the amalgamation of both spiritual or divine and physical into one. 

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I have no sympathy for mentally ill people anymore. I'm done with them. They jeopardize others lives. 

I have more sympathy for those who suffer because of them 

 

I understand the whole argument that "they didn't have any control in being who they are" yet they are still the cause of suffering to others. 

 

Also I have more sympathy for those that are in prisons and jails. Because not all are bad. They have suffered abuse in childhood and never been given the opportunity to do well. 

In fact a lot of them were exposed to drugs and violence as kids by their parents who normalized it for them. Thus they never learned what was wrong or right. The wrong behaviors were normalized for them. As a result they grew up to believe that these behaviors were okay or not much wrong. I will call it "moral abuse" abuse of person's conscience and morality causing the person to become morally unsound and unfit for a proper civil life, 

Children who have been exposed to graphic violence at a young age by parental neglect or parental behaviors can become violent thugs when they become adults which shouldn't be surprising but it wasn't their fault because they were indoctrinated and coached into it. They were exposed to a morally bad environment thus compromising their moral foundations and causing them to not develop a morally sound foundation for character. This I consider a moral abuse of a person. 

 

Child abuse is the thing that touches my heart because I am myself a victim of it

It can be in so many ways 

Emotional abuse

Constant blaming and oppression. 

Attacks on appearance, character, achievements, abilities and self worth 

Pressure 

Hardlined discipline 

Lack of affection and love. 

Absenteeism 

Parental neglect 

Betrayal of trust

Lack of communication

Inability to create trust 

Inability to create space for comfort and peace 

Lack of space and intrusion 

Ocd 

Constant monitoring and judgement 

Physical neglect with food, medical needs and safety or financial security 

Pimping 

Lack of listening and understanding. Not spending quality time in hearing and understanding issues. Not sitting and having a proper lengthy conversation and discussions. No "sit downs" or "talk sessions" 

Lack of sex education 

Lack of accountability when confronted 

Evasion

Not allowing proper Coparenting with a divorced partner  or no legitimate grounds for evasion of Coparenting duties. 

Lack or Avoidance of a child's socialization. A deliberate attempt to stop them from having friends

Not paying attention to their relationships in teenage and near adult stages 

Unnecessary rules 

Lack of guidance 

No teachings about healthy life 

No conflict resolution 

No cooperation with solving problems 

Creating fear distrust and paranoia in children 

Punishing them excessively thus creating pathological liar traits in them 

 

Runaway redflags. 

Creating a bad image of another parent 

Constant verbal/physical fights with the other partner in full view of the children 

Making children anxious when they go through separation anxiety 

Withholding money from them. Financial abuse 

Not taking them to the doctor when it's needed 

 

Inability to deal or solve problems 

Psychological abuse

Stress 

Sexual abuse 

Physical abuse like beating 

Character assassination, dehumanization, infantilization, trivialization, demonization 

Attacks on self esteem and degradation of self worth 

Moral abuse 

 

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It can flare up in so many ways in adults like 

Depression 

Drug use 

Self destructive suicidal behavior 

Self deprecation 

Bad habits 

Reliance on toxic and abusive relationships 

Not having a framework for life 

Illnesses mental and physical 

Lack of trust 

Pathological lying 

Inability to form proper decisions and judgements 

Manipulative behavior 

Emotional clinginess

Lack of responsibility 

 

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Child abuse is the thing that touches my heart because I am myself a victim of it

It can be in so many ways 

Emotional abuse

Verbal abuse 

Constant blaming and oppression. 

Attacks on appearance, character, achievements, abilities and self worth 

Bullying 

Indifference to their problems and issues. 

Not paying attention or resolving them getting bullied by peers 

Pressure 

Hardlined discipline 

Lack of affection and love. 

Absenteeism 

Parental neglect 

Betrayal of trust

Lack of communication

Inability to create trust 

Inability to create space for comfort and peace 

Lack of space and intrusion 

Ocd 

Constant monitoring and judgement 

Physical neglect with food, medical needs and safety or financial security 

Pimping (making them work at a young age to fulfill financial demands of the family) 

Lack of listening and understanding. Not spending quality time in hearing and understanding issues. Not sitting and having a proper lengthy conversation and discussions. No "sit downs" or "talk sessions" 

Lack of sex education 

Intense religious indoctrination 

Performing sex acts in front of them or exposing them to porn 

Making them do sexually abusive things 

Having sexual conversations with them at an inappropriate age cut off age is 17 

Leaving them unsupervised with pets and having violent dog breeds around them 

Leaving them unsupervised with other kids 

Leaving them unsupervised with a friend or relative outside of the close family 

Having an inappropriate or unqualified babysitter 

Not offering children  professional therapy when needed 

Putting them on unnecessary drugs and medication responsible for their future health problems. Misdiagnosis, Munchausen by proxy syndromes 

Sending kids to competitions and events and careers leading to their over sexualization and robbing them of their childhood innocence. 

Sending them to a cult, military or boarding schools. Alienation of affection and rigorous disciplining leading to fear and Dissociation of trust and affection 

Lack of accountability when confronted 

Evasion

Not allowing proper Coparenting with a divorced partner  or no legitimate grounds for evasion of Coparenting duties. 

Lack or Avoidance of a child's socialization. A deliberate attempt to stop them from having friends

Creating Stolkholm syndrome in children 

Not paying attention to their relationships in teenage and near adult stages. Not guiding them in their relationships 

Excessive pressure on them to make them look good or presentable 

Unnecessary rules 

Lack of guidance 

No teachings about healthy life 

No conflict resolution 

No cooperation with solving problems 

Creating fear distrust and paranoia in children 

Punishing them excessively thus creating pathological liar traits in them 

Accidental or deliberate exposure to your self destructive, suicidal behavior, depression and creating sadness and unhappy environment around them 

Exposing them to a dead body or to death 

Exposing them to the drugs you take both medical and recreational 

Exposing them to smoke and alcohol 

Runaway redflags. 

Creating a bad image of another parent 

Constant verbal/physical fights with the other partner in full view of the children 

Making children anxious when they go through separation anxiety 

Withholding money from them. Financial abuse 

Not taking them to the doctor when it's needed 

 

Inability to deal or solve problems 

Psychological abuse

Stress 

Sexual abuse 

Physical abuse like beating 

Character assassination, dehumanization, infantilization, trivialization, demonization 

Attacks on self esteem and degradation of self worth 

Moral abuse. Exposing them to unethical behavior like drug dealing and thus compromising their morality foundations and conscience. 

 

Edited July 10, 2019 by Preety_India

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Resilience... A very important concept 

 

Many of us aren't aware of this.. But for those who suffer this quality should be a part of their Mastery kit. 

It means still shining and recovering and doing better despite having suffered setbacks and problems in the past. But showing remarkable progress and rising above expectation levels. 

It basically means "not succumbing" 

Edited July 10, 2019 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

The unknown enemy 

The unknown enemy is Depression 

 

It's just depression but a lot of things together 

Depression, a feeling of emptiness, lack of focus, lack of strength and love, lack of motivation and purpose, lack of energy, toxicity, feeling of fatigue and saturation,lack of guidance, a feeling of giving up, a feeling of failure and dissatisfaction, a deep lack of positivity, constant negativity, lack of happiness and the need for perfection 

That's the unknown enemy