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Effective ways to deconstruct beliefs

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In your experience, what has been the most efficient method at taking down your limiting beliefs.

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I'm quite new to this exercise. But so far, staring and focusing at a belief makes it abstract. And that abstraction creates confusion. And the confusion sheds a light on truth (I don't know , this is unknown to me) . And from there the question of what is the "I" that think it knows or doesn't know comes from. That's as far I have gotten.

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I've been interested in beleifs and how they work for over ten years. It started when I stumbled upon the work of Morty Lefkoe. I took his training courses, have done a ton of introspection and analysis about it ever since, both through contemplation and by looking up other people's ideas, and still to this day I don't fully understand everything there is to understand about beliefs.

I feel like I know a lot about the subject, but not enough to have a reliable formula to change beliefs, when it comes to personality-shaping ones like "I'm [x trait]".

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I have found Byron Katie's "The Work" good for this.

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I think pushing myself out of my comfort zone and having a a good grounding works, also taking risks and willing to push through the discomfort. 

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Fasting, not just from food but everything in life. The more you discard the more you realize you are complete.


B R E A T H E

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What is meant by fasting in this sense?

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I begin with awareness. I use an exercise called the participant and the observer where I look at myself living and acting according to my beliefs. Then I continue with examining the layers of my belief or why I do what I do. I keep asking why until I come at an answer that I use as the temporary reason (because I can dig deeper in the future and find another layer of reason beneath it). If I can find a reason why I have a belief that's ineffective (perhaps related to an experience in the past), then I often experience spontaneous remission: the belief immediately dissolves once I identify it.


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On 30.7.2018 at 11:14 PM, dorg said:

I have found Byron Katie's "The Work" good for this.

Me, too. ?

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