Most Important Things To Get Rid For Self Actualizing

[Natasha]

Not stalking, just being super observant 

Why leaving? You've been such an asset to this forum. Didn't you say you were Leo's biggest fan?

[Guest]

@Natasha I am still his biggest fan But do you see Leo hanging around in this forum too often? No, probably not. He is out and about doing stuff (or doing nothing since he wants to be a yogi now) and I need to stop wasting time too

I found this forum to be mostly a distraction with little to no use to me. Even if I was helpfull or an asset to this forum, and I love helping people, giving advice and sometimes telling the harsh truth, I don't feel happy being here. Advanced self-actualized people like Emerald Wilkins, Rosie, Cabot and Leo obviously are rare here and most people are not so actualized but still caught in victim mentality and those are the people who are around all the time and posting. (there are just too much "tell me what I should do/think" and "please help me" threads, and the answer to those would most of the time be "use your mind for once" and "start actually watching Leos videos") I mean no offense by this statement, just telling what I feel

[Psychonaut]

@Rasmus It's not like you have to respond to those threads or even read them. Mostly I don't.

You can drastically reduce time spent on here if you just open the forum once a day and quickly look at the topic headings. If you don't see anything interesting just close it again. That's what often happens to me. 

For me this forum is a valuable asset. There are lots of good people on here and I get new ideas from different people.

[Natasha]

@Rasmus  

Don't take anything personally on here or in life in general. Can't please everyone. I've learned a lot from your posts and, I'm sure, so have many others. Maybe just reducing your time on the forum would be the solution. Leo's probably just hoping you'd change your mind and stay 

[Guest]

@Psychonaut I have learned quite a bit too in the beginning. I learned about Matt Kahn, Macha green tea, cold showers, made a new amazing friend, observed quite a lot of oppinions and behaviours, learned about life coaching and most importantly I honestly tried to help a lot of people, with more or less good results. But I cannot change the deletion request now, I think it's time to move on. Maybe when I come back there will be more creators in this forum who focus on creating new ideas and positive changes in the world and amazing business models and cooperations instead on themselves and their shallow problems so much. But as you say it...this forum actually is a good exercise to not give a fuck and stay authentic and real. It's certainly challenging I must say...especially if you get some weird stalker-like white knight guy who will follow you around, giving you negative reps for anything that you post just because one post upset his sick ego earlier. That doesn't even make sense to give negative reps to perfectly fine posts...but it puts my own ego to a test

@Natasha yeah haha, maybe he is But on the other hand, he doesn't know who I am, why would he give a fuck? Let the universe decide, if he won't delete me then I'll stay here and try to make the best out of it. If he delets my acc then I leave for a while.

Thanks you both for your time and effort, I deeply respect your kindness

[Philip]

• Toxic people
• Junk food
• Drugs
• Porn
• Television
• Video games
• Facebook wall
• Most of internet
• Dogmatic beliefs
• Close-mindedness
• Self-righteousness
• Negative thinking
• Distractions
• Addictions
• Judgements
• Self-sabotage
• Childhood traumas
• Personality Imbalances
• Psychological dependence
• Dysfunctional relationships
• The illusion of free will
• The illusion of self

[Falk]

i think you asked a very good question for everyone who just starts his journey, by not asking what to DO but FIRST! what to NOT DO / what do get RID of !!

1. Observe if there is 1 thing that is not directly related with creating an awesome life and takes a huge chunk of time constantly.

2. Get rid of that thing permanently (expect withdrawls the first week!)

3. Repeat Step1 untill you cleansed away the most important energy-suckers

[David1]

İ'd say...make sure your body is in check before anything else. Make sure you're fit, no overweight, no addictions. A healthy mind in a healthy body.