Hey!!  I needed to make this post because I finally made the journey from orange to green in relationships and its really really good. I was very insecure growing up and got super into pickup.  It worked but I was never able to build a truly authentic relationship without manipulations from both sides. When I decided to go green, to always tell the truth, to be nice, to not hide my fears, neediness, and insecurities from people.  Well my "results" went to hell. I didnt get laid for more than a year and it was terrible! haha But in all that time I kept on doing inner work, accepting myself, working on my passions, being as authentic as I could be and really just surrendering all forms of manipulations or attachment to getting a result. Then I naturally got into this cool dance called contact improvisation, something I really liked and that exposes me to meeting alot of new people... and yea, lots of amazing girls. And I just kept treating everyone nicely, making friends and then I started just getting into situations where I met girls that liked me how I was!  I didnt have to be macho or perfect, or rich, or "cool" or whatever.  Just being a relaxed, loving, friendly, honest guy was enough for these girls. I think the problem when you try and do this when you are in orange is that your "truth" sucks.  You are always out to get something, to achieve something, to be better, trying to make yourself look cool and stuff and needing to hide a bunch of things from people in the process. So yea... this was kinda my journey so far. I think what happen is when you change values from orange to green your environment takes a while to change so lets say if I was meeting "orange" girls, they wont resonate with you, basically they wont like you, and you will still have plenty of unconscious or automatic orange in you so the green value girls wont like you either.  You hit this transition perior where its hard to be attractive to any girl. Anyways... the point is that changing your values to something more green and exposing yourself to lots of green people is really amazing in the long run but you might suffer a long dry spell in the process. Thanks for reading!  I really wanted to share this