Spiral Dynamics Stage Blue Examples Mega-Thread

[Eren Eeager]

26 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Patriarchy in a nutshell:

 

This is sick 

[Leo Gura]

33 minutes ago, Eren Eeager said:

This is sick 

What you call sick, other men jerk off to

[andyjohnsonman]

Orange comedians making fun of Blue 

 

 

[andyjohnsonman]

Here's another 

 

 

[Evil Raccoon]

Lol.

 

[Leo Gura]

Blue hypocrisy. Having sex with the pool-boy:

This kind of sexual repression is classic for stage Blue. Repression of sexuality leads to sexual deviancy.

[Lyubov]

they come off kinda creepy. old swinger couples in bars are always kinda creepy. 

dang... that phone call 

so he was sorta like the wife's personal mister and I guess Jerry got off on this? I don't understand

Edited August 30, 2020 by Lyubov

[Eren Eeager]

 

[DocWatts]

If there any other literary nerds out there, Dostoevsky is about as Blue as they come.

Crime and Punishment is particularly interesting, as it's a Blue critique of a Red worldview.

Edited August 30, 2020 by DocWatts
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[Leo Gura]

14 hours ago, Lyubov said:

and I guess Jerry got off on this? I don't understand

I'm speculating here, but I think what was really going on was that Jerry was cheating on his wife for years and as a way to compensate they came to this arrangement of an open marriage where each would sleep around with whoever they wanted, but maintain the appearance of a traditional marriage because, hey, gotta keep up those good ol Christian family values.

I get the sense that their marriage became stale and died long ago, and they just never got divorced because it was too convenient to officially be together.

I'm sure we'll hear more stories in the future about who Jerry was banging behind the scenes while all this was going on.

[Lyubov]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

I'm speculating here, but I think what was really going on was that Jerry was cheating on his wife for years and as a way to compensate they came to this arrangement of an open marriage where each would sleep around with whoever they wanted, but maintain the appearance of a traditional marriage because, hey, gotta keep up those good ol Christian family values.

I get the sense that their marriage became stale and died long ago, and they just never got divorced because it was too convenient to officially be together.

I'm sure we'll hear more stories in the future about who Jerry was banging behind the scenes while all this was going on.

yeah that could be part of it. thing is though there are accounts of jerry talking very openly in a sort of "too much information" sort of way about his sex life with his wife and how they are banging all the time.

Source: https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2019/09/09/jerry-falwell-liberty-university-loans-227914

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Longtime Liberty officials close to Falwell told me the university president has shown or texted his male confidants – including at least one employee who worked for him at Liberty – photos of his wife in provocative and sexual poses.

At Liberty, Falwell is "very, very vocal" about his "sex life," in the words of one Liberty official – a characterization multiple current and former university officials and employees interviewed for this story support. In a car ride about a decade ago with a senior university official who has since left Liberty, "all he wanted to talk about was how he would nail his wife, how she couldn't handle [his penis size], and stuff of that sort," this former official recalled. Falwell did not respond to questions about this incident.

Sounds like his thing is cuckolding and sharing his wife. It's a common kink. I think their sex life got stale and they both decided they wanted to swing with other couples/men/women to spice things up.

I don't think there is anything wrong with this if done ethically, like with all sexual relationships, but obviously at their stage blue values this was a no-no so they had to keep it in the shadows and thus it was bound to blow up b/c of this. 

Such a shame... he could live shame free and enjoy his kinky cuckolding desires if he was less judgemental.

Not sure how I feel about the pool boy though. it sounds a little predatory but also it seems a little too far to label it that since they weren't like his professors or occupying some sort of position of power over him in the beginning. They were just a couple in a bar.

Edited August 31, 2020 by Lyubov

[Leo Gura]

Hatred towards Trump caused Covid-19:

 

[Apparition of Jack]

Healthy blue vs toxic blue: 

 

[Revolutionary Think]

2 hours ago, Apparition of Jack said:

Healthy blue vs toxic blue: 

I wouldn't say Jesse is healthy anything at all 

 

[Leo Gura]

6 hours ago, Apparition of Jack said:

Healthy blue vs toxic blue: 

 

Richard Spencer is not healthy Blue. He's basically a neo-Nazi.

[Eren Eeager]

looked Richard Spencer  up and this is the first thing I found,lol.

[Apparition of Jack]

@Leo Gura  I meant Jesse Lee Peterson (at least his view on loving everyone) was healthy blue, not that Richard Spencer was healthy blue...

[Leo Gura]

23 minutes ago, Apparition of Jack said:

@Leo Gura  I meant Jesse Lee Peterson (at least his view on loving everyone) was healthy blue, not that Richard Spencer was healthy blue...

He's pretty toxic too. Dumb as a door knob.

[Carl-Richard]

20 minutes ago, Apparition of Jack said:

@Leo Gura  I meant Jesse Lee Peterson (at least his view on loving everyone) was healthy blue, not that Richard Spencer was healthy blue...

Jesse Lee Peterson is the master of loaded language and black-and-white thinking. Never take him on his word lol.

[Bernardo Carleial]

On 30/8/2020 at 4:08 PM, DocWatts said:

If there any other literary nerds out there, Dostoevsky is about as Blue as they come.

Crime and Punishment is particularly interesting, as it's a Blue critique of a Red worldview.

I will have to disagree with you on that regard. What happened is that Raskolnikov (the main character) was actually able to see the limitations of vMEME Blue, but he didn't know how to integrate it properly and transcend it into vMEME ORANGE. And because of that (also the fact that he had some money issues) what happened is  that he regresses into vMEME Red and ends up killing a person. And the rest of the book is him trying to make sense of all that...

Another point is that Dostoyevsky was anything but vMEME Blue. In his novels he is very critical about the way society was structured at his time (in 19th century Russia, which was very Blue and Red). He himself was exiled to Siberia to do forced labor.

I highly recommend everyone to go read this book. I'm glad you brought that up @DocWatts ! Sorry if I've been too harsh in my commentary, that wasn't my intention.??

Edited September 2, 2020 by Bernardo Carleial