Why is porn so disgusting?

[MarkusSweden]

It's not that I'm prudish or anything. 

I love the domination, the animal aspect of sex. 

But porn is just disgusting. 

It's so mechanical, so physical in a boring way. 

Always end with a silly cum shot in the face.

Guys in porn business think they 'own' the women by muscles, by physical aspect. 

That's so childish. Sex is more of a psychological game, there is where you can 'own' or be 'owned' or simple unite in equal love/affection. 

The physical should be a manifestation of what's going on in the mental realm, not the other way around. 

It's not that you shouldn't watch porn, it's more like you CAN'T watch it, because it's so bad/boring. 

Edited June 11, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[MarkusSweden]

I only find one porn clip that have actually made me horny. Only one, out of numerous! 

I would love to post it here, but I don't know if it's allowed!?

Anyway that was true love/affection and the couple was so horny in the good way. 

And it was very natural with two natural persons, one gorgeous natural(average) fertile women and a horny sensitive man.  

Edited June 11, 2018 by MarkusSweden

[Spiral]

Skip porn. It’s unnecessary.

[D13g0]

It sucks because you are a woman and you get turned on emotionally and psychologically. If you were a guy you would like porn at least a little bit.
Guys get turned on visually. They can decide whether they like a girl or not within two seconds.
Personally I quit porn about two weeks ago just because it fucks up my brain but not because I don't like it. There is a book called "Your brain on porn" that explains why it's bad. I used to watch amateur porn because at least it's more real
 

 

[pluto]

The higher you vibrate the more disgusting it will appear. Thus you are doing well my friend <3

Keep vibing higher and higher, eventually porn will be out of your presence completely.

[Ether]

5 hours ago, pluto said:

The higher you vibrate the more disgusting it will appear. Thus you are doing well my friend <3

Keep vibing higher and higher, eventually porn will be out of your presence completely.

No, the higher you go the less it becomes. BEcause you are more present, therefore having less thoughts, less thoughts that judge porn.

[pluto]

44 minutes ago, Ether said:

No, the higher you go the less it becomes. BEcause you are more present, therefore having less thoughts, less thoughts that judge porn.

That works too, well said

[zenjen]

I have the same experience. I was never into porn, and I never even masturbated for a long time. I much prefer real intimacy over watching other people have sex, it just doesn't turn me on. I bought myself a vibrator and still don't watch porn, but I can still get off in my fantasy mind. Claim your sexuality for yourself, find out what you do and don't like. It's completely valid to not like porn and doesn't make you prude-ish in the least. <3

[Viking]

For me porn numbs the enormous desire for an intimate relationship, I cant numb the desire by masturbating without porn.

[John Iverson]

Porn is other way for self deception...

[MarkusSweden]

18 minutes ago, Etagnwo said:

Hardly anyone is awake enough to understand what a real relationship is. 

True!

[John Iverson]

13 minutes ago, MarkusSweden said:

True!

You don't have to, just learn how to love by reading well researched books like 5 Languages of love and the Roadless Traveled, and education for porn and what is the effect of those bulshit, is enough... well infact we get in to that bulshits because society don't offer such education to us!! Deep and profound education for how to be human...

[John Iverson]

And how to live a life

[Girzo]

I think it's actually an upside of porn that it is focusing only on a mechanical part of the intercourse. Because of that it's very easy to ditch it when you realize how really shallow it is.

Imagine if every porn video had a very good story and made you passionate about the situation depicted, it would be authentic and glue you to the screen. Thanks god that's not the case, otherwise I would be watching that every day.

But there are TV series and Netflix Originals, that do incorporate that emotional aspect of storytelling and exploit even more of your time and money than porn industry, so that's why I shy away from them.

Porn is not that evil in the end, it's just a handy aid to fixing any lust problems. It's only your issue if you are abusing porn by only watching it and not working on your sex life.

On 12.06.2018 at 5:38 AM, D13g0 said:

Guys get turned on visually.

I call bullshit on that.  When it comes to arousal, I would choose touch over visuals in no time. Of course the looks are important, too, they are like on the second place, just after touching sensations.

Edited June 15, 2018 by Girzo

[louvar]

What’s the difference between watching a good porn with a story with meaning  then watching TV, not much but the attachments have to them. Tbh the porn I watch are intimate and creative. Why not even record or even stream porn to inspire others to show more compassion and be more present etc  towards higher consious values and make money at the same time.  It all has meaning which we create.

To what extent

Edited June 15, 2018 by louvar

[louvar]

On 12/06/2018 at 3:09 PM, zenjen said:

I have the same experience. I was never into porn, and I never even masturbated for a long time. I much prefer real intimacy over watching other people have sex, it just doesn't turn me on. I bought myself a vibrator and still don't watch porn, but I can still get off in my fantasy mind. Claim your sexuality for yourself, find out what you do and don't like. It's completely valid to not like porn and doesn't make you prude-ish in the least. <3

When your vibrator runs out of battery, lmk, I could show you the way of zen

[actualhomie]

Porn is usually used to satisfy the sexual need which virgin "males" face in there adulthood, and they get used to it like there daily food and when they get bored with same food they wanna try new and nastier things which explains the existence of unnatural and fetish sex in porn.

The porn industry doesn't want their viewers to get bored easily so they try to make more shocking and bizarre action on the screen, cause for viewers no real actions are involved whatever they see should fulfil thier desires...

[Sparkist]

I've seen some horrible documentaries on the 'back stage' of the porn industry. It could make me cry what some people put themselves through. But regardless of that, I also find most porn a turn off. I have watched it in the past (although not very much of it), and now I just don't bother with it. It doesn't turn me on. Real genuine interaction (whether physical or intellectual) is where it's at for me.

The facial expressions alone...lol Ahhh man.

[Michael569]

look around you, everything is designed to appeal to unconscious masses. The easy-meals, get rich quick schemes, netflix, stupid youtube adverts. Everything is designed to appeal to human laziness, low conscious chimp mind and ego. Porn is no different. Look at those girls, the makeup, the way they speak and behave, it's all pure chimpdom. 

That being said, you can still find beautiful porn, stripped of all the disgusting elements that is actually appealing to watch, ....although I've only seen handful of those tbh. 

 

 

[Thanatos13]

On 6/11/2018 at 0:34 PM, Spiral said:

Skip porn. It’s unnecessary.

Everything is unnecessary