Im done seeking approval

[thehero]

Hi everyone. 

I've found a lot of my life I've always try to morph myself to try and get the other person/groups approval. Sometimes try not to disagree to not step on their toes and it drives me insane. I cant communicate. I cant be vulnerable and it severely prevents me from living a happy and fulfilled life. I have no idea what to do or where to start. Someone please help me. What do I read? What do I practice... Thanks.

[YaNanNallari]

If you have Leo's book list look at the emotions or social section. If you don't have the list I recommend it. How to win friends and influence people is a pdf you can also google.

[Truth]

@thehero I approve. 

[thehero]

@Truth You're messing with me lol 

[Truth]

1 minute ago, thehero said:

@Truth You're messing with me lol 

lol

[Truth]

@thehero Find and live up to your personal values and use that to determine what is "right and wrong" instead of using the reactions you're getting from other people. 

Soon, that will blossom into full integrity, entering into being grounded and imperturbable no matter what is happening where you become the chooser of your happiness and security, instead of other people. 

Edited April 28, 2018 by Truth

[thehero]

@Truth

[ajasatya]

4 minutes ago, Caterpillar said:

I have some weird advice. Stop telling people what you've done in the past. And stop telling people what you're going to do in the future. Why? Because that's approval seeking behavior. 

 

[phoenix666]

@thehero I've been struggling with that one a lot as well. Teal Swan has some wonderful videos about that. they helped me a lot! I would check them out. specifically 'how to stop caring what other people think' and 'emotional wake up call'

[Star Net]

Hey @thehero  How is Your day ?

 

Think about this

1 - Are all people has the same point of view about all topics in life ? of course not, Different people have different point of views about most or large amount of topics in life.

2 - Because of that dont try to seek for approval from people because most of the time You cant.

This is the Mindset