Focus on my life or girls??

[ExodiaGearCEO]

Hey guys how you doing. My name is kenny I am 21 years old. I had just broke up with my girl about year ago after a 2 years relationship. I broke up with her because I just wasn't happy and wasn't fulfilled with my life and it effected the relationship. I started watching Leos video "How to get over a break up"  and leo goes into about focusing on yourself and I am. Ever since, we broke up I had finally started my own business which is awesome! But I just found out my ex is dating someone new and it kinda depressed me a little. I want to meet new girls but I feel like I just don't love myself enough and that I don't want to waste my time and instead just focus on being successful in my life and business and work on myself more then meet girls. What do you guys think is the right thing for me to do? Thanks! I havent had sex in a long time i feel like i need it but dont want to focus all my time into a girl because I know I still wont be happy?

[ADD]

Forget about girls, get your shit together. Learn to love yourself. Get your business running good. Girls will then run after you.

[aurum]

@ExodiaGearCEO

I've definitely had breakups where I just was not ready to get back out there right away and took time for myself to recharge. And I know that feeling a starting a business and just wanting to focus on that and nothing else.

My only concern is that it's been almost a year since you've guys broken up. That's a pretty long time. Meeting new girls can be emotionally challenging, and you don't want to use your breakup as an excuse not to do that. It's an important area of your life.

Girls are not going to flock to you just because your business is successful and you've developed yourself. That's like creating an amazing product and then never promoting it. You do have to put yourself out there to at least some degree.

[Spiral]

Do more stuff, such as meet new girls, no need to sleep with them or even date them just spend time with them. That’s helps because you rewire your brain. That’s how you get over her.

 

Edited April 22, 2018 by Spiral

[YaNanNallari]

Focus on your life. If it involves girls, so be it. Learn more

[merimo28]

My opinion is to focus on both  There is no reason to pick just one thing, a complete life is both