Still cant speak to women

[Scarecrow]

 

I'm 23. I've never dated or anything before.

I've never really been able to speak to women. Been in countless scenarios to practice. I Completely shut down. My brain gets foggy. I feel frozen, and throat feels like it closes where I can hardy utter a word. Women usually like to engage conversation with me. Usually ends really awkward. I've grown up diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. that for the most part I grew out of. But this current issue still remains the same. I'm always around women. I just cant figure out why I'm this way. It stumps me. Its making me really nervous. The older I get the harder it will be. Wondering if anyone has any input. 

[aurum]

@Scarecrow

You have trauma energy that hasn't been released yet. All the techniques Leo talks about will help you here, especially Shamanic Breathing.

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Scarecrow  When I was your age "diagnosed with social anxiety disorder" -wussent even invented.

 

Maybe you should drop labels like that and focus on what YOU_want_?....and work on getting it.

If you focus goes into the process figuring that out, focus goes off you staring on your bellybutton (hmmm, this may loose something in translation).

 

You seems to look okay for women to make contact with you. That is a good thing and usually a first obsticle.

Step one=done

Step two= find good conversation threads, make up a few canned ones till you can improvise.

Step three= learn kino

...and so on....

 

....btw...women...are people too....wierd ones...but still just people.

Except for one ex of mine. She was the devil.

[Matt8800]

On 4/17/2018 at 5:21 PM, Scarecrow said:

 

I'm 23. I've never dated or anything before.

I've never really been able to speak to women. Been in countless scenarios to practice. I Completely shut down. My brain gets foggy. I feel frozen, and throat feels like it closes where I can hardy utter a word. Women usually like to engage conversation with me. Usually ends really awkward. I've grown up diagnosed with social anxiety disorder. that for the most part I grew out of. But this current issue still remains the same. I'm always around women. I just cant figure out why I'm this way. It stumps me. Its making me really nervous. The older I get the harder it will be. Wondering if anyone has any input. 

As a last resort, consider hiring an escort that you can sense kindness from and telling her everything to see if she can help you feel more comfortable talking to and touching a woman. Because you have no experience, you are overthinking it and making it worse.

[Shroomdoctor]

On 21.4.2018 at 0:11 PM, Barbarian Number 8 said:

Except for one ex of mine. She was the devil.

thanks for the laugh 

[Spiral]

@Scarecrow Does it only apply to women you find attractive? Or all women? 

 

[Guest Quanty]

Ground yourself and learn Tantra.