Is it wise to have sex so soon?

[The White Belt]

Background:

Dating for 3-ish months.

Romantic (confession of feelings, kissing, hugging, dry-humping) for 5-ish weeks.

Tonight I am staying over for the first time. She's super nervous about me staying over. 

I really like her, I want to be respectful. I read an article from a Taoist website saying that in Taoism, for best results, you should sleep in bed together for at least three months before having sex. 

What do you guys think? My intention is for our first time to be the best sex she's ever had. I want to give her the mind-blowing night she deserves.

 

Thank you. 

[Ether]

Mind blowing hahaha

[Phrae]

Where are you from? Where do you live? What is your religious background?

[Charlotte]

@The White Belt When you know it's the right moment to initiate, you'll know. 

Good luck and happy sexy time ?

[The White Belt]

@Phrae I'm a westerner who holds no organised religion. 

[Random-Hero95]

Dude. Just go with the flow man. 

Don't force it, don't rush it. Don't go in with a game plan. Don't go in expecting anything. 

It'll happen naturally, when it happens. 

Don't read those articles either, they're quite subjective and may not be relative to your situation. If the time is right, cuddling will lead to kissing, kissing to foreplay, foreplay to sex. 

Like I said, just gooooo wittthhhhh theeee flooowww and don't over think anything. 

[Nahm]

@The White Belt Have sex.   But get the idea of it’s “Best ness” off the pedestal. Spontaneity is better. Laugh together about it! The sex will be the better for it and your appreciation for each other will be more genuine and felt. Be sure to watch Leo’s vid on squirting! And don’t forget a report!

jk

[Charlotte]

34 minutes ago, Nahm said:

And don’t forget a report!

jk

?

I second this

Jk

@The White Belt

 

[The White Belt]

I'm on her bed. She's in the shower. 

 

 

Who needs Taoism anyway?! 

[Charlotte]

@The White Belt She's definitely prepping ?? ?

[SFRL]

Soon? 

I got a 3 date rule. If it doesn't happen by the 3rd date I move on. 

Preferably 1st date. Second date is pushing it. 

[Random-Hero95]

Well... how did it go?

[Hello from Russia]

we are waiting for a  report haha

[dude]

Hahahaha this post cracked me up. So relatable lol.

[Charlotte]

@The White BeltB

This morning...

[Spiral]

Maybe it's her first time if she is so nervous. 

[Ether]

13 hours ago, Charlotte said:

@The White Belt She's definitely prepping ?? ?

And they say men have a higher sex drive

 

All dudes got joookeees

 

[Charlotte]

@Ether Depends on the individual ? people stereotype too much ?

[Ether]

@Charlotte Maybe it was a joke?

Oh, i forgot SOME women dont got that!

 

[Charlotte]

@Ether some, EXACTLY, in my case, this isn't true ?