How important looks are in a relationship ?

[SFRL]

10 hours ago, Monkey-man said:

woman should look healthy and natural - these are quite important on a deep subconscious level, but her beauty is not really that important for man

Lemme tell ya a secret i've noticed - most men try to avoid girls who are very beautiful

I don't know why exactly but its very common

it might be because beautiful women usually have narcissistic personality these days, probably men can feel that

I think it works like this:

A 8 gets like twice as much attention from guys as a 7 does. A 9 does gets twice as much attention as a 8 does. A 10 gets twice as much attention as a 9 does. 

So the better looking a woman the attention she receives increases exponentially. 

What that means for the guy is that he will have to deal with extreme amount of competition for 1. Getting the girl 2. Keeping the girl. Basically a guy dating a very pretty woman always has to deal with someone trying to steal his girl. 

Not only will there be more guys trying to steal his girl, but those guys will also be more dedicated to doing so, and the quality of the guys trying to steal his girl will increase as well. So in short he will have to deal with much more and tougher competition.

As a guy you are just going to ask yourself; "Is all this bullshit worth it?". 

With let's say a 8 (a pretty girl) you will have to deal with some competition, it's part of dating a pretty girl. That's ok. 

But if you want to date a prettier girl (9/10) you need to deal with much more competition for a girl who is a little bit better looking, but the thing is the 8 was pretty already as well (good enough). Now if you start factoring in other things like personality, humor, sex skills, chemistry, intelligence etc. Dating that 9 or 10 simply for her looks just isn't worth the investment/headfuck. 

Of course this point I made can be easily countered by the argument that in that case one has insecurity issues but honestly I think that is pretty much how it works. 

Also when you do date a very pretty girl (9/10) this funny thing I have noticed happens. Your surroundings when you are out in public, like in a restaurant or mall, automatically assume that you must have the personality of a dickhead. Because most guys dating very pretty women are    A-type personalies. 

On the contrary when you are out in public with a so so looking girl everyone asumes you are a nice guy. 

 

Edited April 2, 2018 by SFRL