Difficulty establishing close relationships

[TruthSeeker47]

I haven't had a close relationship with anyone for around 4 years, not even my parents, I kind of just drifted away from people but now I'm trying to connect again.

It's a hell of alot harder than when I was young, It just seems so awkward when people already have established lives and circles and friends, to enter into their circle and open yourself up to them.

I'm fine making small talk with other people in my classes and stuff, but only talking about general things I can't seem to figure out how to develop closer relations then just a classmate.

If any of you had this problem and overcame I would really appreciate any tips, also tips on solidifying your self esteem as not to fear being vulnerable to people.

[NoSelfSelf]

This is tough i think try to work on not being too serious and open your body language(be approachable) if you care for people some while care for you back..

[Nahm]

@TruthSeeker47 I struggled with this, I now find relationship synonymous with relativity. Can’t work on the consciousness of others, can work on yours, and I’ll be damned, it was relative all along. 

[TruthSeeker47]

@Nahm So if I work on myself enough this problem will be solved?

 

[Nahm]

@TruthSeeker47 Yeah. Practices, learning, etc.