No-Fap questions and comments.

[PsiloPutty]

I've been on edge for the past 2 days....anxious, thought loops, grumpy, and just feeling bad because of it all. I was trying to figure out why, and it occurred to me that the only thing I've changed in my life recently has been giving up masturbating a couple weeks ago, and I don't currently have a girlfriend, so no  intercourse. Do you think it's possible that it's behind my mood? I'd have to rewind my life 20 years to find another time where I went 2 weeks without a sexual release, so it's kind of an uncharted area.

I'm finding it hard to not touch myself after I lay down at night. It's almost like torture to masturbate and stop myself before it's too late, but I've done that a couple times. I don't think that's a long-term strategy for success or peace of mind, though. 

Normal stuff for this stage of no-fap??

Edited to add: I've noticed that my concentration/attention hasn't been very good during my morning meditations, too. Another thing attributed to the stage I'm at with no-fap?

 

Edited March 21, 2018 by PsiloPutty

[aurum]

@PsiloPutty

Could definitely be part of it. Hard to say without more information.

Why did you start no-fap in the first place?

[PsiloPutty]

Thanks! I see now that I should have posted this in the no-fap thread already running.

I'm just interested in pursuing self-development, and read that it could/would increase confidence and joy. 

I used hard porn about 2x a week and masturbated about 3x a week, so I wasn't doing it all the time, but it seemed like a form a self-slavery. It felt like......a jerkoff!   

 

[Helios]

Edging is worse than masturbating and orgasming. Stop edging, if you still feel stressed and anxious masturbate and orgasm without watching porn.

[PsiloPutty]

I think you're right. Edging is straight up masochism. Thank you.   

[Feliks912]

Fourth day of the first and hopefully last no-fap journey I have ever attended.

Despite being very light with porn in general in last few months (after years of using it), I am already getting irritated more quickly and more intensely.

Wish you luck man, I don't know what will happen to me, matter fact for you...

I do, however, know how primordial that urge is, and you know what happens when your brain kicks in with some hard-wired behavior.

Nothing more to it tho, decision is prominent.

 

"Celibacy improves the condition of your semen. However much semen you are able to retain, you will receive in that proportion greater wisdom, improves action, higher spirituality and increased knowledge. Moreover, you will acquire the power to get whatever you want."
Semen loss / semen value

[Psyche_92]

1 hour ago, Feliks912 said:

Fourth day of the first and hopefully last no-fap journey I have ever attended.

Despite being very light with porn in general in last few months (after years of using it), I am already getting irritated more quickly and more intensely.

Wish you luck man, I don't know what will happen to me, matter fact for you...

I do, however, know how primordial that urge is, and you know what happens when your brain kicks in with some hard-wired behavior.

Nothing more to it tho, decision is prominent.

 

"Celibacy improves the condition of your semen. However much semen you are able to retain, you will receive in that proportion greater wisdom, improves action, higher spirituality and increased knowledge. Moreover, you will acquire the power to get whatever you want."
Semen loss / semen value

Join us here friend: 

 

 

[Hardkill]

I don't think that I'll ever be able to stop no-fap. I tried it and it's too impossible for me.