Why do i keep letting go of good ones??

[Jacobsen]

I have had a lot of great chanses with really amazing girls so far with my life. Girls who captivate me. Who id easily want to start something with. But the common theme is that i cant bring myself to talk to her and hold a conversation without feeling extremely akward and uncomfortable. I end up letting go because i cant bear the thought of "losing her" i guess.

 

Why am i feeling this way? Maiby you can elaborate with your own experience. I want to feel like i can just express myself and feel goid with my communication.