Question Of Morality

[mohdanas]

Is having sex with multiple people as bachelor wrong in terms of ethics?

[DocHoliday]

Whose ethics and whose morality is it that you're acting by? Of course it's not wrong if you don't think it is and of course it's wrong if you feel like it is.

Edited March 5, 2018 by DocHoliday
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[Ether]

Bad and good dont exist

[student]

Forget about ethics, about automatism.

Do whatever you want, then deal with the follow-ups. You will deal with the follow-ups if you are focused on growth. If you are not, then you will just continue to live in the primal circle.

[EmptinessDncing]

Consequences happen in the relative world.  Adopt the morals of that world, even whilst realising they are bull shit, and stop thinking about it.

If it's not hurting anyone, then you don't have to think about it anyway.  Life's for living.

[mohdanas]

4 hours ago, EmptinessDncing said:

Consequences happen in the relative world.  Adopt the morals of that world, even whilst realising they are bull shit, and stop thinking about it.

If it's not hurting anyone, then you don't have to think about it anyway.  Life's for living.

I was raised with strict morals and ethics and they were very fundamental part of me, I am trying to let go and be more relaxed. 

Thanks

[Telepresent]

5 hours ago, EmptinessDncing said:

If it's not hurting anyone, then you don't have to think about it anyway.  Life's for living.

1 hour ago, mohdanas said:

I was raised with strict morals and ethics and they were very fundamental part of me, I am trying to let go and be more relaxed. 

One thing I would say to be aware of, is how much of your moral compass is based around things you hold valuable, and how much is based on what you think other people think you should do.

The reason I advise caution here is that I rode a 'morality is all relative, there's no good or bad' train for a while - and I violated values I still held.  I committed actions which hurt others, and while I tried to justify them in a 'no good or bad' way, the emotional truth of it slammed into me very, very hard.  In this case I hurt other people, but importantly I also hurt myself very badly as well.

Even if other people are not involved, not hurt, it does you no good to hurt yourself through violating your own sense of morality.  I'd rather advise investigating it: work out what you believe, why you believe it, and whether you think you should continue to believe it.  If you want to change, reduce, or re-orient your moral compass, by all means do - just don't smash it if you're not ready emotionally

 

[mohdanas]

On 3/6/2018 at 10:44 PM, Telepresent said:

One thing I would say to be aware of, is how much of your moral compass is based around things you hold valuable, and how much is based on what you think other people think you should do.

The reason I advise caution here is that I rode a 'morality is all relative, there's no good or bad' train for a while - and I violated values I still held.  I committed actions which hurt others, and while I tried to justify them in a 'no good or bad' way, the emotional truth of it slammed into me very, very hard.  In this case I hurt other people, but importantly I also hurt myself very badly as well.

Even if other people are not involved, not hurt, it does you no good to hurt yourself through violating your own sense of morality.  I'd rather advise investigating it: work out what you believe, why you believe it, and whether you think you should continue to believe it.  If you want to change, reduce, or re-orient your moral compass, by all means do - just don't smash it if you're not ready emotionally

 

This beautifully explains the conflict going on in my mind. 

I do try to workout things, what to hold and what to let go, and I asked this question for the very reason. To gain clarity about what is right or wrong, so I can make better decisions without conflict of morality going on in my head. 

I do not believe there is no good or bad, the tears on someone face is very real to me, so is a smile, if this reality is a dream, I do not care, even if this reality is a video game, I believe there is a reason for it, so lets play/live it well and mindful of others.