People think i'm a young boy although i'm 25.

[Psyche_92]

Something i've been noticing lately is that people think i'm a young boy instead of a 25 year old guy. I've been called "boy" several times now, and i'm kind of getting annoyed by it. I was also for a very long time attracting young girls, or getting attention from them, when i didn't really knew where this was coming from. How can i change this? I'm planning on growing a beard, which might help, but then again i kind of have a low voice so i don't understand why people think i'm a "young boy".

[Shroomdoctor]

@Psyche_92 why does it bother you?

[Shin]

From your pic, I thought you were 35+ ...

Yeah grow a beard, that's pretty much all you can do.

Shave your head if it isn't enough.

See the benefit, when you'll be 40 you will look like 30 !

Edited March 1, 2018 by Shin

[Psyche_92]

2 minutes ago, Shin said:

From your pic, I thought you were 35+ ...

Yeah grow a beard, that's pretty much all you can do.

Shave your head if it isn't enough.

See the benefit, when you'll be 40 you will look like 30 !

Lmfao 35? C'mon man, are u trolling?

[Shin]

Just now, Psyche_92 said:

Lmfao 35? C'mon man, are u trolling?

No change your pic lol

[Psyche_92]

7 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Psyche_92 why does it bother you?

I want to hunt for milfs . Nah, idk honestly. It's weird to get attention from teenage girls and not so much from older ones.

[Shroomdoctor]

@Psyche_92 like 18 year olds or 12 year olds? The first option doesn't seem so bad.  ?

[Psyche_92]

2 minutes ago, Shroomdoctor said:

@Psyche_92 like 18 year olds or 12 year olds? The first option doesn't seem so bad.  ?

Barely 18. I think most of them are 16 ish .

[Shin]

7 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

I want to hunt for milfs . Nah, idk honestly. It's weird to get attention from teenage girls and not so much from older 

I thought girls wasn't important anymore and that you were 100% working on yourself ? Hummm ?

Btw, I don't know where you live but where I do, girls are legal at 15 ?

Edited March 1, 2018 by Shin

[Psyche_92]

6 minutes ago, Shin said:

I thought girls wasn't important anymore and that you were 100% working on yourself ? Hummm ?

True, it still is much more important to me. I doubt it will ever change lol. 

7 minutes ago, Shin said:

Btw, I don't know where you live but where I do, girls are legal at 15 ?

That's just plain weird.

[Ibn Sina]

Been there. Done that.

[Psyche_92]

1 minute ago, Ibn Sina said:

Been there. Done that.

So how did you "fix" it .

[Shin]

16 minutes ago, Psyche_92 said:

True, it still is much more important to me. I doubt it will ever change lol. 

That's just plain weird.

Well ...

If you don't have any alternative ...

Since girls above 17 sees you as a baby ...

No shame all gain ?

[Ibn Sina]

In this situation, there are mainly 2 things that is desired to undergo change.1.  Your body and 2.  mindset of other people. Since both are very unlikely to change there is a 3rd  meta alternative which is your mind and how you see yourself. Whether you think you are a boy or a man, you are right.

 

Edited March 1, 2018 by Ibn Sina

[Monkey-man]

i think anyone would be happy about that dude  ppl can think much worse things

why dont u marry one of those young females since its good time for it

[Lynnel]

@Psyche_92  Dude younger girls are amazing ! (Conditions apply).

[WildeChilde]

I'm in the same situation as you Psyche and have similar tastes as well.  

Not only do I look younger, but I have what many would call a "pretty" look.  It's an advantage with college-age girls, but if you're into older women, it makes things more challenging from my experience.  

What I do is dress more maturely.  I'm talking about chinos, button downs, loafers, navy blazers (if appropriate), etc.  Unless it's a tee or henley, I tuck in my shirt.  I speak to them in a casually manner, but I don't use a lot of slang.  I try and make it clear I'm not the boy-toy sort.  

[Shin]

52 minutes ago, Lynnel said:

@Psyche_92  Dude younger girls are amazing ! (Conditions apply).

In what ?

Except the fact that they have a smoother skin I don't really see the upsides.

 

Edited March 1, 2018 by Shin

[Lynnel]

@Shin Their whole body feels very '"fresh"' and not as worn out as older girls. You don't yet see all the drugs/alcohol/partying damage.

Again take this not with a grain of salt but like a whole salt mine

Edited March 1, 2018 by Lynnel

[Robert]

47 minutes ago, WildeChilde said:

What I do is dress more maturely.  I'm talking about chinos, button downs, loafers, navy blazers (if appropriate), etc.  Unless it's a tee or henley, I tuck in my shirt.  I speak to them in a casually manner, but I don't use a lot of slang.  I try and make it clear I'm not the boy-toy sort.  

But is this authentic? Why go through all of that? If you get into a relationship with one of those girls eventually everything will have to come out.

I use to have a similar problem as you and OP, but these days I just forget trying to look older and I just stay as myself. It makes me way happier.