sexuality

[F A B]

Are there more "nice guys" now than the past?

If the answer is YES, then, does society tend to hide our sexual desire?

[Truth]

No society just pushes over the nice guys agenda with its own agenda effortlessly.

[Shin]

Society hiding sexuality ?

I don't know where you live, but in France it wouldn't suprise me to see ads about orgies, gangbang and bondage group session in 5 years.

Community like this exist and are legal in a lot of countries you know, also very easy to find those on google.
In germany prostitution is totally legal, you can walk in a street with prostitutes exhibiting behind a glass (to attract you ofc).

In fact it's a good thing, because the more legal and mainstream it becomes, the less abuse their will be.

 

Edited February 12, 2018 by Shin

[YaNanNallari]

One thing about nice guys is that the "nice guy" thing is often guys being frustrated at the expectation of getting girls or being "confident"(=arrogant) when in actuality girls themselves are the ones confused about what they want. So they are met with an impossible task of pleasing contrary sides of a girl. They should just focus on improving themselves and meeting a girl who has their stuff straight.

So if there are more nice guys now it probably means that girls are starting to realize that they don't have to take shit from guys so much, which leaves girls in an awkward spot of still being attracted to douchebags as their best choice, but also wanting a nice guy. So then "nice guys" learn that if they pretend to be nice, they should get the girl then since girls don't want douchebags anymore. But girls end up not really wanting a "nice guy" and maybe suppressing what they want, since they can't transform the lust for the douchebags into love and passion. Guys should also realize that there's a point to being both nice and blunt when fitting and doing it with their own style and honestly same with girls. Balance of course leads to actualizing which is terrifying. A girl/guy who wants to stick to their ego can't handle being with an actualizing girl/guy because it would reveal their own lies, which also discourages actualizing since you might be left alone at the top.

[Nahm]

@Shin true story. There are several full on porn channels on regular tv there. Not judging, but I was like, wtf? Wow. Ok. 

[Ayilton]

On 2/12/2018 at 10:58 AM, F A B said:

Are there more "nice guys" now than the past?

If the answer is YES, then, does society tend to hide our sexual desire?

There are more I guess  !  There is more depression and less autenticity this days  and a lot of sexual repression also  !  

Majority of society see sex as a sin  ,  so we suppress it  !  

We are going from suppression to expression and finally to acceptance and peace  about the topic of sex  !