Where to look for love?

[Shin]

1 minute ago, aurum said:

@Shin

What is your alternative suggestion?

 

 

Doing activities he like to find compatible partner, and traditional pick up in the street to rise his game if he want to have faster gain.

Impro is great too.

[aurum]

On 2/15/2018 at 5:16 PM, Shin said:

Doing activities he like to find compatible partner, and traditional pick up in the street to rise his game if he want to have faster gain.

Impro is great too.

If all a guy is looking for is to settle down with some cute girl with some basic commonalities, I agree. You could eventually get that doing what you said. I've done it myself in the past.

But in my current reality, that's selling yourself way, way too short.

It might be a good stepping stone if you're new to game, but you'll never consistently date the most attractive women you can doing that. The results I'm personally after require a much different strategy and lifestyle design.

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Sippycup Hej! haha!   I think that you might be right. Selfactualizition seems to be a somewhat solitary lifestyle.

Tinder is not a so big thing in my country. Also the peoplementality here is as cold and isolated as the weather and 4 layers of clothing.

The lack of sun really messes up peoples desire to mingle.

 

I am sorry to say that there are very few "advanced" people in my biome. I am usually the smartest one in the room and _that_ is very depressing when trying to selfactualize.

On the upside I get hit upon, but....not by anybody that I want or can see a future with.

Also, we have the agething. I am 44 and that means that all the best fruits where picked up in the morning and now at midday, only the leftovers and the singlemoms are at the market.

Ja, I prefer to meet in person. I am at my best when being "experienced", not in writing and photo.

But I will try your youtube-advice. It can be a beginning of something good or practice, to widen the search. If it works out, I will name my firstborn: @Sippycup !

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Nahm  Ja, I guess you are right.

But my biological clock is ticking and now that I have most thing where I am happy with them, I started focusing on reproducing with a lifecompanion.

It will not complete me, but it will add to my experience.....I think.....I hope....I want to try....

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Ayilton  Very true. But my hand cramped up and I want to share my life.

 

So, to put it in perspective.....I was sitting under a palmtree at Kata beach, toes in the sand and me eating bananapancakes and drinking a coconut.

I was thinking...it would be nice to share with an equal, someone to do adventures with.

 

I am suspecting that at some point in selfdevelopment, there is the stage of sharing. I might be wrong. I am still in development...

[Nahm]

@Barbarian Number 8 right on! Spouse & kids are the best. Always fun. Most of time. Well, a lot of the time. Sometimes. Once and awhile they’re great. I don’t know. They’re a lot of work. 

Jk 

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Girzo  Hmmm, I was actually considering picking up yoga. Could be fun. But the turn-off there would be that I heard people fart alot when practecing!? I don´t know why, but it would kill the romance for me.

I learned to stay away from western-shoppingmalls, the girls there are very materialistic and also mostley unemployed. Any place that mall aircon is a plus, the pick up selection is better.

I am a minimalist, so malls usually rubbs me the wrong way. Except the foodcourt...me loves them!

I will try out more music festivals, it might work.

The cafés at city centres are good places I think (but not in my country).

 

 

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Nahm  hehe! -Damnit! Now you got me worried!

[Nahm]

@Barbarian Number 8 lol. Just kiddin. Best thing ever. 

[Key Elements]

21 hours ago, Nahm said:

@Barbarian Number 8 lol. Just kiddin. Best thing ever. 

I agree on this a lot.

[Shin]

Guys, I meet a girl, but she's only 16 ...

It's legal in France, but it feels so wrong morally, even though she's quite mature for his age.

I don't know what to do !

Edited February 20, 2018 by Shin

[vibrate]

On 19.2.2018 at 0:18 AM, Barbarian Number 8 said:

@Sippycup Hej! haha!   I think that you might be right. Selfactualizition seems to be a somewhat solitary lifestyle.

Tinder is not a so big thing in my country. Also the peoplementality here is as cold and isolated as the weather and 4 layers of clothing.

The lack of sun really messes up peoples desire to mingle.

 

I am sorry to say that there are very few "advanced" people in my biome. I am usually the smartest one in the room and _that_ is very depressing when trying to selfactualize.

On the upside I get hit upon, but....not by anybody that I want or can see a future with.

Also, we have the agething. I am 44 and that means that all the best fruits where picked up in the morning and now at midday, only the leftovers and the singlemoms are at the market.

Ja, I prefer to meet in person. I am at my best when being "experienced", not in writing and photo.

But I will try your youtube-advice. It can be a beginning of something good or practice, to widen the search. If it works out, I will name my firstborn: @Sippycup !

I know so so so many goodloooking, intelligent, caring women who can't find a partner in their 30ties and 40ties!!! And since you seem to be quite a catch, surely there won't be a shortage of suitable women....But your attitude about midday picks...? May be they aren't the leftovers only, may be they have just now goten away from pricks, or they used all their time to develop themselves and make actually great partners now, or they were just too busy to serve community or whatever....

I wanted to recommend Yoga to you. I practice Kundalini Yoga and usually there are 10 women and 1 man. If I would look for a femlae lifepartner, I would attend Kundalini Yoga classes and festival. My partner is usually the only man in the room and he totally enjoys connecting with so many attracitve and conscious women. The same I would say about Kriya Yoga.

[Faceless]

You would have to know what Love is to know where to find it. Otherwise your looking for an idea of love and not the action of love itself. 

Good luck friend?

[Shin]

1 hour ago, vibrate said:

I know so so so many goodloooking, intelligent, caring women who can't find a partner in their 30ties and 40ties!!! And since you seem to be quite a catch, surely there won't be a shortage of suitable women....But your attitude about midday picks...? May be they aren't the leftovers only, may be they have just now goten away from pricks, or they used all their time to develop themselves and make actually great partners now, or they were just too busy to serve community or whatever....

I wanted to recommend Yoga to you. I practice Kundalini Yoga and usually there are 10 women and 1 man. If I would look for a femlae lifepartner, I would attend Kundalini Yoga classes and festival. My partner is usually the only man in the room and he totally enjoys connecting with so many attracitve and conscious women. The same I would say about Kriya Yoga.

@Barbarian Number 8 Do this, even without the woman componant it's worth it. Women who are there are great, but yeah as vibrate says, generally 35+, but the quality and depth of these women trumps any kind of girl you could meet in any other situations.

You're 44 it's perfect, they won't look at you as a baby 

Edited February 20, 2018 by Shin

[Barbarian Number 8]

@vibrate

8 hours ago, vibrate said:

I know so so so many goodloooking, intelligent, caring women who can't find a partner in their 30ties and 40ties!!! And since you seem to be quite a catch, surely there won't be a shortage of suitable women....But your attitude about midday picks...? May be they aren't the leftovers only, may be they have just now goten away from pricks, or they used all their time to develop themselves and make actually great partners now, or they were just too busy to serve community or whatever....

I wanted to recommend Yoga to you. I practice Kundalini Yoga and usually there are 10 women and 1 man. If I would look for a femlae lifepartner, I would attend Kundalini Yoga classes and festival. My partner is usually the only man in the room and he totally enjoys connecting with so many attracitve and conscious women. The same I would say about Kriya Yoga.

-Thank you very much. But, I am 44 years old, soo...ja. I would put a males prime/SMV somewhere betwen 35-40.

You are right about the outlayers on the specter. Those are kind of what I am hoping to find on the market.

Those yoga odds certenly looks good. I will see what the Kundalini and Kriya involves for moves. My body is broken, so some moves would make me scream.

Thank you for the tips!

[Shin]

5 minutes ago, Barbarian Number 8 said:

@vibrate

-Thank you very much. But, I am 44 years old, soo...ja. I would put a males prime/SMV somewhere betwen 35-40.

You are right about the outlayers on the specter. Those are kind of what I am hoping to find on the market.

Those yoga odds certenly looks good. I will see what the Kundalini and Kriya involves for moves. My body is broken, so some moves would make me scream.

Thank you for the tips!

It is way less physical than other yoga don't worry.

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Faceless That is very true. Althou that discovery never ends and changes, I am pretty sure what I want for my current being. Also, I do expect to be supriced to.

I have noticed that the more one have lived, the more detailed "the list" becomes.

Thank you for the wishes friend!

[Barbarian Number 8]

11 hours ago, Shin said:

Guys, I meet a girl, but she's only 16 ...

It's legal in France, but it feels so wrong morally, even though she's quite mature for his age.

I don't know what to do !

Age is a tricky thing.

Women mature earlier than men, so the man should then be a bit older.

In Sweden one may have sex at the age of 15 and are considered adults at 18.

The age difference seems to matter less the older one couple gets. I guess stability and selknowledge plays a bigger part then.

[Barbarian Number 8]

@Shin I am currently looking after yoga places in my town. I will go and talk to the yougis there. Could be fun How it works and so on.

[Ether]

On 20/02/2018 at 11:42 AM, Shin said:

Guys, I meet a girl, but she's only 16 ...

It's legal in France, but it feels so wrong morally, even though she's quite mature for his age.

I don't know what to do !