NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[bejapuskas]

@Bill W  Well, I wanted to say something completely different  I am not a native speaker lol. How come you dont do nofap?

[Bill W]

13 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Bill W  Well, I wanted to say something completely different  I am not a native speaker lol. How come you dont do nofap?

I'm not convinced of any benefits and never been convinced it's a problem. I've tried no fapping but not for long periods and only to intensify the orgasm rather than try to give up fapping. I believe it's a healthy activity if not done to excess. I'd much rather give up eating junk food than fapping or give up a whole host of other things. But for people who over do it or get obsessed with fapping and/or porn I imagine they really want to do no fap. 

[oMarcos]

Honestly you guys don't need to be so harsh.

The more you judge yourselves the more of a thing it turrns out to be.

 

I'm almost 2 months without watching porn. Still faping without porn at least 2 times per week. 

Instead of nofap at all, try at least  to fap fewer times without porn, and slowly progress from that.

[bejapuskas]

@Bill W  I see, for me it already makes a difference after like 3 days, probably I was very addicted.

@oMarcos That's how I did it, now I am on no-fap and it feels amazing, girls are more beautiful also  

 

Edited September 7, 2019 by bejapuskas

[Shin]

Something weird is going on.

My energy recovery is 100% faster.

Usually I need at least 3 days to feel super enegertic again, now I need only 1.

Is this GOD MOD (motherfucker - Leo 2019) ???!!!

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Edited January 9, 2020 by Shin

[bejapuskas]

@Shin  Fap - why you shouldn't quit porn & masturbation, because my recovery time is too fast

[Shin]

14 hours ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin  Fap - why you shouldn't quit porn & masturbation, because my recovery time is too fast

That was the worst month in years, so many backlashes everywhere ??

 

Nofap in a nutshell ?

It is true ?

 

Edited January 10, 2020 by Shin

[bejapuskas]

@Shin  Oh yessss! That's where you realize that the duality between fap and nofap is illusory and that there is only the Absolute (fill in the blank) with capital (fill in the blank) ?

[Shin]

15 minutes ago, bejapuskas said:

@Shin  Oh yessss! That's where you realize that the duality between fap and nofap is illusory and that there is only the Absolute (fill in the blank) with capital (fill in the blank) ?

«Fill in the blank»

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[bejapuskas]

@Shin  Sorry I'm undermining your efforts ??

[LaucherJunge]

I tried NoFap the last time seriously about 11 months ago, after I had a bad breakup it was pretty easy because I was in hella pain anyway with or without it and I had my record there of 30 days but honestly the benefits were pretty overshadowed by being love sick for the most part.
Anyway after these 30 days I felt like going back to my roots, felt that the change wasn't really me, wasn't really coming from within but from the circumstances of porn being the reason for her breaking up.
Now I kinda found my way back but with a completely different approach, I tried to find out as much about sexual energy and energy in general mostly in a tantric sense and just been at it for about a week now just trying to move up my energies into the higher chakras, also trying to have these orgasms without ejaculation although I didn't really get there fully yet kinda had a glimpse of it but I also just managed to improve my physical self love process(masturbation) so to speak, I just fully passionately dive into it move all the lust up and try to focus on my heart even during ejaculation just coming more of a place of love, of the heart space and the orgasms together with the ejaculation have been so amazing that I really feel satiated for a long while after these and have really no desire for porn what so ever. I can even watch the Witcher series for example with tons of nudity without letting the lust overtake me even for a second. I am pretty sure this isn't as fast of a healing of this addiction as full abstinence would be, but trying to be fully abstinent always was the real reason for me to fail at NoFap because I could never see a future for me being abstinent I am just too much of a sexual being, especially being a scorpio ascendant, my lust has always been overtaking any other efforts but now my lust turns into unspeakable loving energy or in the future energy of any kind I wish it to be, so I hope at least.
Now I can't say with 100% certainty that the addiction won't return because I am just at a week into this but believe me I have never felt like this ever before, I just know now that I don't need it anymore because I have something that is far better and healthier and has infinite potential for growth right at my lap.
Just some possible inspiration for everyone who feels the same way I did back in the day.
Just find your process of self love, find the way to really fulfill your needs in this healthy way not focusing solely on the lust but on the love radiating from your heart when you move the energy up into the higher chakras. I even allow myself to fantasize but as I said in a loving not lustful way but even if for a moment I get carried away, that's just part of the process and it's going to get better over time.
Now don't get me wrong, if abstinence is the way for you, you should totally go for it because it's very powerful and probably a faster and more direct way but be honest with yourself about this stuff maybe sometimes it's better to go step by step.

[Meetjoeblack]

On 23/12/2017 at 1:59 PM, Shin said:

 

 

Let's start with the symptoms ...

 

... and the potential "Superpowers":

*In fact there is no "superpowers", you rob yourself of your own masculinity by fapping and watching porn, it's only what you are by default.

 

 

Usefull links:

 

Some videos:

 

 

 

How's it going? Has there been a breakthrough? Any improvement in life? Love?  Energy?  Clarity? 

I once went 2months no fap but, it was after going out on a bender crunching everything at which point, I thought l broke myself. Being a raw dawg warrior isn't a good time after reflection. The internet is scary lol. 

[Soulbass]

week 1 be like:

week 2 be like:

week 3:
more awareness on the shit in my life, taking massive action to change it.

week 4:
facing emotions

to be continued...

[Grateful Dead]

I am doing semen retention for a bit over 2 months now and honestly not so much has changed 

The two things I really noticed are: 

When I go out dancing on weekends the girls go crazy like I start dancing and 5 minutes later 5 girls surround me just waiting for me take make a move on them 

the other thing is that I see woman different now like I want to just talk with them about casual stuff and learn about them. The sexual stuff is more in the background 

I didn’t start no fap with any intention it kind of came naturally in my spiritual journey because fapping to porn felt really weird 

[Shiva99]

Fuck this addiction man. I think i will never be able to quit it. Everything goes so well until stuff in my life starts to improve drastically as a side effect of leaving this addiction behind me. There is always this huge force that comes over me, and it tries to undo all my progress. It doesn't want me to be happy, it doesn't want me to succeed. It doesn't feel safe in this area were everything is going fine. It doesn't allow it at all. I'm not in control of this. It's much stronger than i will ever be. Pure self sabotage demon.

[Meetjoeblack]

I used to think porn hate was nonsense. As I got older, I changed my opinion and I think its cucked. I read levels of energy and power vs force. Its rating is low. Its not from a place of abundance but inaction.

[Bill W]

On 2/9/2020 at 7:43 PM, Meetjoeblack said:

I used to think porn hate was nonsense. As I got older, I changed my opinion and I think its cucked. I read levels of energy and power vs force. Its rating is low. Its not from a place of abundance but inaction.

Man, I've read your post 3 or 4 times before typing this, but I have to ask... what are you talking about? Because somewhere in there seems an interesting point! Seriously. But can you reword it or something? 

[Shiva99]

19 hours ago, Bill W said:

Man, I've read your post 3 or 4 times before typing this, but I have to ask... what are you talking about? Because somewhere in there seems an interesting point! Seriously. But can you reword it or something? 

I think he's referring to spiral dynamics. 

[Danioover9000]

   

1 hour ago, Shiva99 said:

I think he's referring to spiral dynamics. 

   He's not.

[Danioover9000]

   As long as you don't get blue balls frequently, hyper aggression towards men and women, and staring at the ceiling all night, then NoFap is for you!