NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[bejapuskas]

@Aeris  Notice how unconscious you are while fapping.

[Aeris]

Not true. Cause I don't use porn and think of the girl I m with. Then take a very deep breath and feel the hand pushing on the skin.

Each stroke making me a bit more conscious.

I don't use porn 

mainly because I don't want my mind to be aroused by a non actual thing.

And I m not talking everyday. Dépend. I m not a daily fapper. Life goal call

[Shin]

And are you conscious of all t he energy you lose when you cum ?

If you were really that conscious, just this will make you stop.

[Aeris]

I only do it when I m overpowered, so yes.

but when I do it while on love it's different. It's the same, but not from a place of craving.

when you have been aroused all the day by your girl and cannot see her before many days ?
 

Edited March 18, 2019 by Aeris

[Shin]

Doesn't make any sense.

You feel great so you want to feel less than great ?

That's being deceived by the mind big time.

[bejapuskas]

@Aeris  You speak nonsense bruh.

[Aeris]

I did & my girl had rules .. I have known except respect & love.

it was more hard than edging and no fap, such a god challenge.

go try to knock at the door and not enter ! that's REAL CHALLENGE FOR THE MIND. BLUE BALLZ ? BODY BLUE

I mean no man on earth could own the will I had, not fucking her with my hooky looky so close from her lumpiu lumpa

2 days she will tear up the sofa.

I made her mind squirt by mental arousing

Edited March 19, 2019 by Aeris

[Shin]

[KyleR]

Yoo what’s the deal with wank but no cum mate?? You said in OP it’s a bad idea but deida and a video posted here a few weeks ago suggest daily practice circulating the energy is healthy and necessary. Plus how is the energy wasted if it’s not shot out? I’ve been trying a little over a month and longest streak is 11 days?best to leave my dick alone yea? 

[Shin]

4 hours ago, KyleR said:

Yoo what’s the deal with wank but no cum mate?? You said in OP it’s a bad idea but deida and a video posted here a few weeks ago suggest daily practice circulating the energy is healthy and necessary. Plus how is the energy wasted if it’s not shot out? I’ve been trying a little over a month and longest streak is 11 days?best to leave my dick alone yea? 

 

It took me 2 years to recover, so don't expect to be addiction free in one month ?

Even though I guess it's possible, just very unlikely.

[bejapuskas]

@KyleR  Who told you, that creative energy can only be used for ejaculation?

[KyleR]

@Shin Cheers??nonut4life then eh, but still, fap a bad thing? To practice the circulation of energy but no ejaculation?

@bejapuskas ah I meant so we can bypass ejacultion during sex easier, would require consciously circulating our sexual energy right? But would be much harder with no practice tugging prior 

[Shin]

11 minutes ago, KyleR said:

@Shin Cheers??nonut4life then eh, but still, fap a bad thing? To practice the circulation of energy but no ejaculation?

I don't know, there just is a high change you will relapse if you do this while still being addicted.

[KyleR]

That’s what I’m thinking cheers mate 

[LiakosN]

Yesterday I told a girl that I do not want to ejaculate and waste my sexual energy and she was offended saying : I don't like a man that does not cum, I don't want to become a Guinea pig for you just to practice non ejaculation... She is thinking of leaving me.. 

Also, she told me that she want sex all day, I would become a whore if it wasn't for my conscience... 

I was like fuck man why I even told it.... 

 

Edited March 26, 2019 by LiakosN

[Psyche_92]

18 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

Yesterday I told a girl that I do not want to ejaculate and waste my sexual energy and she was offended saying : I don't like a man that does not cum, I don't want to become a Guinea pig for you just to practice non ejaculation... She is thinking of leaving me.. 

Also, she told me that she want sex all day, I would become a whore if it wasn't for my conscience... 

I was like fuck man why I even told it.... 

 

Wouldn't worry too much about it tbh. Let her leave you if that's what she wants. If you are on this level and want to practice Karezza, than so be it. Just look for someone who is on the same level and don't let someone who is not into it, hold you back from that.

Maybe you could introduce her to the book: "Cupids poisoned arrow". But it seems like she's very ignorant, so maybe don't bother at all and move on.

Edited March 26, 2019 by Psyche_92

[LiakosN]

@Psyche_92 mmm I do worry, it's not that i truly want to stop ejaculation... I think it's impossible to find that kind of a girl 

Edited March 26, 2019 by LiakosN

[LiakosN]

@Psyche_92I@Psyche_92I also told her that I would like to be in a state that no negative emotion arises and she said to me that it isn't possible.. I don't want to be with a man like that 

 

Is it possible or not? 

 

 

[Psyche_92]

30 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

@Psyche_92 mmm I do worry, it's not that i truly want to stop ejaculation... I think it's impossible to find that kind of a girl 

I don't see the problem then.

22 minutes ago, LiakosN said:

Is it possible or not? 

No. As a human you experience good and bad emotions, that's how it is and that will never change. The thing that can change however, is the attachment and wanting to feel a certain way at all times.

 

[thesmileyone]

I have experimented with NoFap a few times. What I found is

Benefits: women seem magnetized to you.

Drawbacks: too much testosterone, too much energy, even with grounding techniques, boredom, unable to watch tv etc due to overly sexualised feminist propaganda.