NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Shin]

Don't be this guy

 

 

 

 

 

Be this guy

 

Edited November 11, 2018 by Shin

[Sahil Pandit]

@Shin this reminded me of you hahaha

 

[Shin]

1 hour ago, Sahil Pandit said:

@Shin this reminded me of you hahaha

 

But it's gonna be worth it this time 

?

[Shin]

 

 

[Marinus]

Day 23 for me

[alea]

Day 33, I've lost weight without diet. Active lifestyle can cause it. 

[Shin]

I don't know if it really helps to limit wet dreams, but those are things I try to avoid:

• Getting in bed while wanting to pee (or waking up in the middle of the night and not peeing)
• Sleeping with my dick touching the bed

Please tell me if it changes anything 

Edited November 18, 2018 by Shin

[brugluiz]

I'm on day 59 and I probably reached a plateau. I don't know if I'm getting benefits anymore. At least I'm not looking at porn.

Girls get attracted to me easily though. I really don't do anything and some girls want to kiss me. I try to be funny but sometimes I'm a dick with them (they're not hot girls, but before no-fap, even 4's wouldn't be so attracted to me).

[Sahil Pandit]

[Shin]

On 11/19/2018 at 4:25 AM, brugluiz said:

I'm on day 59 and I probably reached a plateau. I don't know if I'm getting benefits anymore. At least I'm not looking at porn.

Girls get attracted to me easily though. I really don't do anything and some girls want to kiss me. I try to be funny but sometimes I'm a dick with them (they're not hot girls, but before no-fap, even 4's wouldn't be so attracted to me).

Define being a dick.

To me it's just being normal, it was just my nice guy mind  that was interpreting things that weren't there.

[Pharion]

I'm Intersted I'm doing this, but my current situation doesn't fit with this program. 2 months from now I'll give it a go. Also does someone want to explain in detail or link to something that explains this "transmutation process"? 

[Shin]

@Vitamine Water

(Didn't want to spam your journal)

Really ?

If I get a wet dream (like this night), I feel pretty drained.

Not as drained as if I intentionally let it all out, but still drained.

Wet dream in my experience looks like it replace 33 to 50% of sperm, so it's still a significant amount.

Don't ask how I got those numbers though ?

Edited November 22, 2018 by Shin

[Vitamine Water]

3 hours ago, Shin said:

@Vitamine Water

(Didn't want to spam your journal)

That's okay man, feel free to post there

Yea I felt pretty drained after the wet dream, but this was more physiological than physical. Only one "wave" so so speak came out. I was able to hold the rest and not make it a full *blown* orgasm. But I felt disappointment. I cleaned it up (it was around 4am) and I noticed how my mind reacted to what happened. A thought arose: "hey man, fuck it. Just jerk off right now man, you'll feel great, you've failed already". But I gave it no energy. 

Also I noticed that I still felt horny and in need to climax. Normally after an orgasm I have no desire in sex (like we all do) but now I kept this "nofap" energy and motivation and decided to live with that. 

And most importantly, there is absolutely nothing that you can do about this. Your body's default mode is to have orgasm. It's trying everything in its power to let something out. The goal of nofap is to quit watching porn and masturbate and eventually orgasm. You propably didn't do any of those. You just went to bed and woke up all wet. It's natural! 

Yes you lost about 41.5% (accurate af) of your sperm, but don't let it take you down. Use your mind and positive thinking to get back on track. Wet dreams are completely fine, especially on this journey.

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/do-you-consider-wet-dreams-a-pmo-streak-breaker.63415/

[Shin]

1 hour ago, Vitamine Water said:

That's okay man, feel free to post there

Yea I felt pretty drained after the wet dream, but this was more physiological than physical. Only one "wave" so so speak came out. I was able to hold the rest and not make it a full *blown* orgasm. But I felt disappointment. I cleaned it up (it was around 4am) and I noticed how my mind reacted to what happened. A thought arose: "hey man, fuck it. Just jerk off right now man, you'll feel great, you've failed already". But I gave it no energy. 

Also I noticed that I still felt horny and in need to climax. Normally after an orgasm I have no desire in sex (like we all do) but now I kept this "nofap" energy and motivation and decided to live with that. 

And most importantly, there is absolutely nothing that you can do about this. Your body's default mode is to have orgasm. It's trying everything in its power to let something out. The goal of nofap is to quit watching porn and masturbate and eventually orgasm. You propably didn't do any of those. You just went to bed and woke up all wet. It's natural! 

Yes you lost about 41.5% (accurate af) of your sperm, but don't let it take you down. Use your mind and positive thinking to get back on track. Wet dreams are completely fine, especially on this journey.

https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/do-you-consider-wet-dreams-a-pmo-streak-breaker.63415/

 

The first few time we blame ourselves because we're neurotics af, it's so funny in retrospect ?

I don't blame or think it should be otherwise, I was just interested to see that you can be as energetic directly, I guess it depends how fast your body finish to reproduce sperm.

Ahah yeah the trap is to say it's ok to fap if you had a wet dream, but with experience you know you will be even more tired so there is no point ?

[Vitamine Water]

33 minutes ago, Shin said:

 

The first few time we blame ourselves because we're neurotics af, it's so funny in retrospect ?

I don't blame or think it should be otherwise, I was just interested to see that you can be as energetic directly, I guess it depends how fast your body finish to reproduce sperm.

Ahah yeah the trap is to say it's ok to fap if you had a wet dream, but with experience you know you will be even more tired so there is no point ?

Sorry, maybe I was assuming too much

And yea, I think you lost more than me, hence you felt more drained.

We're hanging in there

 

[brugluiz]

On 20/11/2018 at 8:43 AM, Shin said:

Define being a dick.

To me it's just being normal, it was just my nice guy mind  that was interpreting things that weren't there.

I told a girl who was almost passing her hands on my dick that I was a hard guy to be picked up. I felt it was a bit dicky.

[Shin]

7 minutes ago, brugluiz said:

I told a girl who was almost passing her hands on my dick that I was a hard guy to be picked up. I felt it was a bit dicky.

15 hours ago, Vitamine Water said:

 

 

 

 

 

Doesnt sounds dicky, more like a extremely direct sentence to break the glass.

 

[brugluiz]

12 minutes ago, Shin said:

Doesnt sounds dicky, more like a extremely direct sentence to break the glass.

 

Lol! I feel bad when I'm radically honest with people. I shouldn't feel this way. I bought a book called Radical Honesty. It's arriving. I hope it'll help me though.

Edit: I think today is day 62 (or 63, can't remember), and I have the feeling that I'm less addicted to artificial stimulation. I look at photos of beautiful women (not pronographic pics) and I find them beautiful, but I don't have the urge to watch porn and jerk off.

Edited November 23, 2018 by brugluiz

[Shin]

Yes the lust becomes natural attraction.

You will not even think about sex at some point,

You will just appreciate the energy women can give you just by being near you.

 

[brugluiz]

6 minutes ago, Shin said:

Yes the lust becomes natural attraction.

You will not even think about sex at some point,

You will just appreciate the energy women can give you just by being near you.

 

I still think about sex, but I want to have real sex. I made up with 2 girls last week and it made me horny, but I had the will power to control it and be in peace with myself.